I have read many articles and books by psychologists, and watched many podcasts by psychologists.
Joseph Sestito helped me to be less self cherishing as a blogger:
I found the most comforting advice for dealing with a job, in which I sucked, in this study done by Amos Tversky and Thomas Gilovich:
https://www.quora.com/What-is-best-to-practice-how-to-be-positive-even-when-people-criticize-your-work/answer/Minoo-JhaI learned to meditate from a book by Andrew Newberg and Mark Robert Waldman. Meditation in turn, led me to realize what made me happy. Freedom from worrying about money, and material possessions, was one of those things:
https://www.quora.com/Could-minimalism-be-the-key-to-financial-freedom/answer/Minoo-JhaI learned to navigate my child’s teenage years better, after reading the book The Available Parent, by a therapist by the name of Dr. John Duffy. It had a crucial role to play, in my graduating from Tiger Mom and Helicopter Mom, to Lighthouse Mom, with a brief stop at Hippie Mom, on the way:
https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-essential-parenting-skills/answer/Minoo-JhaThere is no “best psychological advice”.
Rather, I have gotten advice from here and there.
From books, from articles, from podcasts, from family members, from relatives, from friends, from sudden insights.
Everyone in my life has contributed to my psychological well-being.
Here’s an example of how a friend contributed to my well being:
https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-one-and-done-mistakes-in-your-profession/answer/Minoo-JhaHere’s an example of how another friend contributed to my well being:
https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-avoid-overthinking-about-someone-who-even-dont-know-me-well/answer/Minoo-JhaYou can certainly contribute to someone’s psychological well being.
“Who me?” you may say.
A timely piece of advice can solve a puzzle for a person, and help them think of something in a new way.
A timely compliment, can lift someone’s spirits, and give them energy and vitality, that will last for days, or longer.
You can make someone aware of their gifts, or compliment them on something, that may not be obvious to them.
Putting something in someone's compliment bank, helps them, when they hit a low. They can draw on those compliments.
Attention has power.
Giving someone your attention, can give them reasons to keep going in an activity or pursuit, they may be wondering about the the value and worth of continuing.
How can you contribute to someone’s psychological well being?
I will leave you with that thought today.
P.S. Dear Reader, my blog will enter its 15th year on December 27, of this year. If I’ve been able to keep going at it for 15 years, it is thanks to all of you. So a big thank you to all of you, for sharing my thought journey through all these years.
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