Will exploring a wide range of career opportunities improve one's odds of success?

In support of a "yes" answer, here are 6 ways in which exploring different career opportunities may pay off:

One, life will be more interesting, if you experiment with different career opportunities.

Two, you will learn new things. No two careers are the same.

Three, with each change in career, you will meet new people, people different from the kinds of people you’ve met before.

Four, when you are new to a career, there will be no room for boredom or complacency.

Five, your second, third, fourth, or nth career, may be the one you are most successful at.

Six, your second, third, fourth, or nth career, may be your most satisfying career. 

Satisfaction is a legitimate form of success.

Ultimately, each of us decides what success means to us. 

Satisfaction may be what success means to you.

In support of a "no" answer, here are 6 ways in which pursuing different career opportunities may not pay off...

One, all the hard work you put into studying something, or learning something, and the experience you gain in one career will be lost, unless you apply what you have learned and experienced in that career, in your next career, or careers.

Two, when you are new to a career, you will have newbie status.  Not only may the money be entry level, but you will go from being an old-timer in your previous career, to being a nobody in your new career, until you are able to prove yourself, and reach established status.

Three, you may lose any benefits that vest, or that you become eligible for, only when you have completed a certain number of years in a job. - benefits such as longer vacations, stock options, sabbaticals, etc.

Four, you may lose the freedom, flexibility, and autonomy, that come with being in one job and career.

Five, if you are in one career, you will in time, become an authority on topics and subjects related to that career, a satisfaction in itself. You will lose this when you change careers.

Six, and this is important to state, perseverance is the key to long-term success in a career. You will lose this key, if you keep changing careers.

Minoo Jha

· Oct 6

What role does perseverance play in achieving long-term success?

Perseverance is a key, perhaps the key to long-term success. Those who persevere will achieve more in any sphere (area) of life, than those who don’t. Firstly, they are keen on using their talents, putting their abilities to work, or pursuing their interests. So they are likely to start using their talents, abilities, and interests, early in life. Initially, it may be in a non-professional, hobby setting. At this stage, they do the activity, for the sheer joy of being able to do it. Creation is involved. And they enjoy seeing the results of their creations, as well as experimenting with new ideas. This is a soft beginning. A little later, their talents and creations will be discovered, or they will themselves spot an opportunity, to pursue their interests further, either through getting a job, or through a business idea. This is when their plans and ideas solidify. At this stage, many people’s ambitions come to rest. But the persevering person never rests. They could be happy with the fact, that they are earning money from something they like to do, and are good at doing, and they are gaining knowledge and experience, while practicing what they are good at. But for the persevering person, that’s not enough. Their goal is to become better at what they do, to create and do more, to establish a name for themselves, to use their talents, abilities, and experience, beyond what is required just to support themselves. They are in it to find out how far they can take their talents and skills. They are in it, not just for the immediate future, but for the future they cannot see. The long haul. Regardless of challenges, rejections, disappointments, slow times, and competitive blows, they plan to keep the momentum going. Not resting in high moments, or grieving in low moments. When thrown to the mat, instead of thinking, “it’s all over for me”, they pick themselves up, and keep going. The persevering person may be a short-run pessimist, but they are always a long-run optimist. They never fail to hope for better times. It helps them persist. It helps them expand the number of things they can do, as well as expand the variety of things, they can do. They are also able to branch out, and extend. While the non-persevering person, jumps from tree to different tree, allowing too little time to achieve significant success in any area, the persevering person hones and refines what they do, smartly extending what they do, when the opportunity arises. They don’t make the deadly mistake of losing focus, losing interest, losing traction in the area they have dedicated their lives to. Over time, this makes the core of their knowledge, skills, and insights, strong. It also makes them agile. Quick thinkers and quick doers. Persevering people are success attractors. Over time, they achieve remarkable success. Looking at their success, the non-persevering person will say, “how lucky they are - they got into the right field, everything clicked for them.” They assume the persevering person’s success was due to advantages, resources, support, and connections, that they were lucky to have. But it’s neither a true assumption, nor a fair assumption. The persevering person’s success may have nothing to do with being handed a golden key at birth, or being lucky with resources, connections, and the support to succeed. Their success may be entirely self-made. In fact, the persevering person’s success is significantly due to their persistence and perseverance. They never gave up. They kept going. They were willing to try, and try again. They stretched themselves to meet new opportunities, not letting complacency make them lose their grip. Long after others stopped, or hopped onto a different tree, the persevering person kept at what they were doing, kept the momentum going. It’s how they got to where they are today. And it describes the long-term success of most of the successful people I know. If you ask any of these successful people the question, “what role does perseverance have to play in the success you’ve achieved, and continue to achieve?”, this is the answer you can expect from them…. “EVERYTHING!”

I have presented 6 ways in which, a  wide range of career opportunities may benefit you, and 6 ways in which they may not.

For most of us, this may be just a point of curiosity, because the default option (maybe, even the best option) is to stick with one career.

If there are circumstances in which, you don't have a choice, but to switch, even though you loved your career, you will see some of the negative aspects I have listed come to play - such as being a nobody, stripped of the respect and authority you previously enjoyed, and for many, far less income too.

Immigrants often don't have a choice, but to switch.

Some are doctors, some are professors, some are just copywriting hacks like myself.

I was forced to make a radical career switch, after I immigrated to America, and was unable to get a copywriting job.

Minoo Jha

· 4y

If you had a chance to do over, which profession would you choose?

Yes, both of them. This piece explains… Quick - What do Ronald Reagan and I have in common? We both have had second careers. Being a Hollywood actor, and serving as president of the United States – those were Ronald Reagan’s 2 careers. Being an advertising copywriter, and then a commissions analyst – these were my 2 careers. I am not sure what inspired Ronald Reagan’s career change. I know what inspired mine. It was moving to America. I moved to America in an existential crisis. There was no planning involved. Further, I came to America with a toddler in tow, and money to last me 3 months. By hook or by crook, I had to find a job before the money ran out. I spotted just one or two openings for copywriting jobs. Copywriting had been my career in India, a career in which I had been successful. So I applied. I got a response to one of my applications. Off to San Francisco, I went for the interview. But I did not get the job. Maybe looking in AdWeek would have been better. But I did not know how to drive. And I had an 11 month old child to contend with. So I decided to bite the bullet and get an Admin Assistant job. First, I went to Goodwill Institute of Career Development. There I learned the rudiments of the Microsoft Office suite of applications – Word, Excel, Access and Powerpoint. Just before my 3 months of money ran out, I got my first admin assistant temp job. Phew! 2 more admin assistant temp jobs followed, before I was to get my first permanent admin assistant job. I became an Admin Assistant to a Sales Manager at Palm Inc, the company that made the Palm Pilot. Palm was where my Commission Analyst career was born. Here's how it happened... After a few months of working at Palm, my boss wondered aloud at one of our one on ones, whether I might be better suited to a more challenging job. I asked him, “Like what?” He said Palm had tons of openings. I should look at them. Maybe there was something that would catch my eye. I asked him, “Can you think of what might be suitable for me?” “Yes,” he said, “Laura, over there is looking for a Commissions Analyst to join her Commission Accounting team. Go talk to her.” Commissions Accounting - what’s that? I wondered. Like in the story of my first career, where my boyfriend knew what copywriters did, but I didn’t, my boss knew what Commission Analysts did, but I didn’t. Anyway, I went to Laura. I didn’t even know if I was saying it right. “I have come to see you about the Commission Analyst job. Andy told me you had an opening,” I said. “What’s your background,” she asked me? “I used to be an Advertising Copywriter in India, and I’ve been working for Andy as his Admin Assistant these past few months.” She was incredulous. “You don’t have the skills,” she said. I was incredulous too, when I found out what the job involved. It was all numbers. I would have to calculate sales commissions, which was a numbers job, the whole day. I had no experience with numbers. I didn’t believe I had a talent for numbers. And to tell you the truth, I wasn’t interested in numbers. How could I, a words person, obsessed, besotted, in love with words, do an “all numbers” job like Commissions Accounting? The suggestion from my boss I go to Laura, appeared kind, but misplaced. But my boss didn’t let go of the idea. I think he was keen to get me off his back. Either that, or possibly, he just wanted me to be fruitfully occupied at work. I had a lot of idle time on my hands, and he could see it was wearying me. “Minoo, go back to Laura. Tell her you have free time. Tell her you will help her out, until she hires someone.” So I went back to Laura. She felt bad to turn me away. After all, what harm was there in letting me help her till she hired somebody? “Ok,” she said, “maybe you can help me with a few things. Let’s get started tomorrow.” And that’s how it began. My foray into Commissions Accounting. Laura started giving me work to do. And teaching me at the same time. The work involved a lot of Excel. Actually, advanced Excel. I only knew the rudiments of Excel. I just followed her instructions. Frankly, I was scared to death. But the fact I was just “helping till she found someone” took the pressure off. I must have done alright. Because after a short while, she said, “Minoo, I need to convert you from Andy’s assistant to a Commissions Analyst under me.” The paperwork was processed. Soon my business card read Minoo Jha, Commissions Analyst, Palm Inc. Laura informed me she would be going out on maternity leave soon after. When I heard her say that, I started panicking. “Laura, how am I going to manage? I don’t understand any of the formulas.” “Laura, if any of the formulas break, I won’t know how to fix them.” “Laura, if a new hire comes on board, what will I do – I don’t know how to set up their statement?” She put all these fears to rest. “Don’t worry, Minoo, trust me you can do this.” “Just copy the formulas from the existing sheets on to new sheets for new hires.” “And if you break a formula, just look at one of the other spreadsheets and copy the formula over from there.” “Trust me - you can do this.” Those were the magic words. Laura went out on maternity leave. I found myself in the position of having to handle the commissions function at Palm entirely on my own. The challenge both terrified and inspired me. I knew the answer was to become really good at Excel. So I did a Google search for ‘best books to learn Excel” and read reviews. I decided there were 5 good books, each of which had different things to offer. I got my boss to let me expense them. The books arrived. Every night after Tanita went to sleep, I would crack them open. Soon, with the help of my 5 books, I mastered Excel. And this once “words only” person stopped being terrified of doing a numbers job. Laura never returned from maternity leave. I handled the commissions function at Palm on my own for the next 5 years. All the way until I moved to greener pastures. I am still doing Commissions Accounting today. Except I now do it as a Freelance Consultant. So now you know the story behind my second career as well. Not as exciting as Ronald Reagan’s second career. But you can see there were many cliff-hanging moments for me, along the way. P.S. Aren’t managers amazing? Laura took me on just because I had fire in my belly. She saw I just needed a little confidence and a little grooming and I would be on my way. She set me up for success. I am so grateful to her till today.

Tears and frustration gave way to cheerful acceptance, and a focus on the positives. 

I wouldn't  have been able to compare myself to President Reagan, if not for that change.

Actually, I got more than one blog post out of the switch.

Careers are a way to find out about ourselves.

While our background, history, personality and talents, may land us the perfect first career, we may find out that we can do things which are completely opposite of that.

Career changes, in that respect, expand our horizons.

Life events will also play a part.

Marriage, having children, a family illness, aging parents, can each, in its time, change what we want from a career.

We can try to ignore those realities, but they will intrude into our thoughts, and demand our attention.

Just as the kind of work that is good for someone else, may not be good for us, what is good for us at one time, may not be ideal for us at another.

My concluding advice therefore, is to make regular evaluations of what you are currently doing.

Does it make sense, based on your background, history, personality, talents, and circumstances?

Make an assessment, and if you think something needs to change, then put on your thinking hat.

What can you do that might work?

It may not be an all or nothing.

Can you tinker with what you are doing currently?

What small or modest adjustment can make a difference?

Hopefully, I have got you thinking, and this is just the impetus you need to make a change.

Minoo Jha

· 5y

If you know several successful people, what is something that they all have in common?

They all understand that success is personal… All of us are unique. One size doesn't fit all. Not only do we have different geographical backgrounds, we come from different families and cultures. Our genetic and environmental make up is different. What each one of us was exposed to as children, was different. We have had different kinds of schooling. We've been raised in different kinds of families and homes. We've been part of different communities and cultures. Because we spent our childhoods doing different things, and facing different circumstances, we grew up learning different lessons. We grew up absorbing different values. Naturally, the options we think we have are different. The things we are willing to do are different. The things we are able to do are different. We have different fears and concerns. We have different interests and drives. We have different goals and priorities. Quite naturally, the challenges we feel we are up to taking on, will also be different. For all these reasons, it's important for each of us to develop a personal definition of success. This definition should be valid for you, and you alone. I had a rough childhood, where I rarely got a good night's sleep, because my dad had a drinking problem and would be up all night creating scenes. So part of my definition of success is a good night's sleep. Your unique background, your unique education, your unique experiences and experiments, your unique circumstances, and of course your unique dreams and talents, should all figure in crafting your definition of success. Is it that you were the only one to blaze a trail in your family? Is it that you got through your teenage and early adult years without messing up your life? Is it that you have been able to go with the flow, and make a living taking on different challenges? Is it that whatever you touch, you have always made your investment of time, money, and energy pay off? Is it that you have been able to achieve some things that are important to you, such as work flexibility, or work-life balance, or good health? Is it that you have been able to live simply? Is it that you have been able to go from strength to strength in your field? Is it that you have never let a disabling illness or condition stop you from doing the things you want to do? Is it that you have reinvented yourself through different jobs? Is it that, no matter the life blows, you have never lost your faith in God or humankind, or yourself? Is it that you have made some tough sacrifices you never thought you would make? It is that you are a good friend, a good parent, a good child, or a good brother or sister? Is it that you have never let failures and setbacks keep you down? Is it that you have been steadily able to command more and more respect as a person? Success to you may be succeeding in a field where you are a minority. Success to you may be knowing you have conquered some fears or weaknesses to become a better, or stronger person. Success to you may be dealing with a tough situation, without going to pieces, or losing your compassion. You don't have to let other people's definitions of success determine your life. You know who you are. You know what you have been able to do. Most important of all, you know what still remains to be done. Here’s someone who has his own unique definition of success:

Are there any circumstances where it is acceptable not to follow through on tasks or commitments, you have said yes to?

Here are some circumstances where it may be acceptable...

• You agreed to the task or commitment under coercion.
• You agreed to the task or commitment, without thinking things through.
• The task or commitment involves a commitment of money (or money and time) from your side, that you have changed your mind about, and have decided you do not want to make.
• A gut feeling surfaces, that the task or commitment, is not the right thing to do, or not right for you.
• You have learned new information, which rules against doing the task or commitment. 
• Something has arisen - such as a health issue, or a personal crisis, which is a legitimate reason for you not to follow through:

In all of the above circumstances, it is important to let the person or people you are letting down, know.

Better still, do not commit.

Better to say you can't make a commitment, then to make a commitment, and back out.

Because think about it...

Saying yes, and then backing out, can cause an inconvenience.

It can cause financial loss.

It can cause physical difficulty.

It can cause the person to scramble to make alternate plans, to fill the spot you have created.

This is, of course, besides making them feel disappointed, making them feel let down.

So, whatever you do, do not make backing out of commitments a habit. 

You don't want to develop the reputation of being a flake.

You don't want to develop the reputation of being an opportunist. 

An opportunist says yes, but keeps their options open.

If something better comes along, they casually back out of the commitment, often giving a lame excuse about why they had to back out.

Much better to RSVP no, even if it means losing your place, and the opportunity to change that.

It's no secret...

Relationships and friendships are strengthened, when those in the relationship or friendship keep their word, and keep their commitments.

When you shake hands on something, make your handshake firm.

Why is it good to be courageous in life?

You will need courage to get out of a comfort zone:

Minoo Jha

 · 6y

What event made you get out of your comfort zone?

Hi, You asked,What event made you get out of your comfort zone? I had to make a career change when I moved to America. A big, big career change. This event that made me get out of my comfort zone in a big way. Here’s my story… When I was in 2nd grade, I won a state-wide SPCA essay writing contest for an essay I wrote called My Pet. This was the first sign of my writing talents. The next sign was after I finished high school and started having boyfriends. As soon as we got serious, “the boyfriend” would start receiving handmade greeting cards from me. I would express my feelings in all sorts of creative ways on these handmade greeting cards. They were low on image quality. I couldn’t draw to save my life. But they were reasonably good on word quality. Because when Boyfriend 2 came along, after receiving the 4th or 5th card from me, he said, “Minoo, you would make a good copywriter” “What’s that?” I asked. I had never heard of copywriters. At the time, our city was dotted with some very clever billboards for a floor laminate. My boyfriend said, “Minoo, you know those billboards with those clever Woody Woodpecker lines - those were written by a copywriter.” “Ooooh, I would love to do that,” I said, “How can I get to do that?” “You have to join an advertising agency,” he said to me. At the time, I was still in college, so I just filed it away. But that was sign 2 - the recognition from the boyfriend for my writing talent. Sign 3 emerged shortly after. When I should have been in my 2nd year of college, I switched to “external college studies”. This was really an excuse to give myself time to think about what I wanted to do with my life. As a result, I had a lot of spare time on my hands. I used this spare time to scribble again. Since there was no more boyfriend, he had departed for another city with my greeting cards, my scribbles took on new form. I wrote my own guitar songs - lyrics and music. I found this to be more rewarding than writing greeting cards for boyfriends, because I had a larger audience, consisting of family and friends. And I also started writing middles for the local newspaper. Writing for the newspaper, was of course, even more rewarding in terms of audience; the audience was as large as the circulation of the newspaper. And I was to find out how rewarding it was to reach newspaper audiences, when my sister got a call one day from a friend, who said, “We have a job for that sister of yours who writes for the newspaper.” The friend was calling from an advertising agency. Shortly after that call, I started my first advertising copy job. My boyfriend’s suggestion had turned out to be prophetic. Then I moved to America and the music stopped. I couldn’t land a copywriting job. I couldn’t even land an interview for a copywriting job. I got a job as an Admin Assistant to a Sales Manager at Palm Inc. 6 months into the job, we had a one on one. My manager suggested I apply to an opening that was available on the Commissions Administration team. I was his Admin Assistant, but he had my best interests at heart - I know…so sweet. Initially, I was incredulous. I was a words person. How could I, a words person, do an ‘all numbers” job like Commissions Accounting? His suggestion appeared kind, but misplaced. But you know what? Sometimes, we need to go with an idea, even if it sounds crazy. That’s the only way to find out if we can do the unthinkable. So with a great deal of trepidation and reluctance, I bit the bullet and went for this totally new and scary "Commissions Accounting" thing. And guess what I found out? I was a words person, but I was also a numbers person. I was a pretty decent numbers person, at that. After a short while, my new manager in Commissions Accounting, went out on maternity leave, and never returned. This left me in charge of the commissions function at Palm entirely. It was intimidating. But every night after my daughter went to sleep, I would crack the Excel books. In this way, I quickly mastered Excel. And this once “words only” person handled the commissions function at Palm on her own for the next 5 years - until she moved to greener pastures. I am still doing Commissions Accounting today, except I now do it as a Freelance Consultant. As a freelance consultant, I have to get out of my comfort zone with every assignment. Every new assignment brings a brand new set of opportunities and challenges. But of course, with so many zigs and zags in my professional life, it doesn’t scare me away any more. You see, getting out of my comfort zone has become second nature to me.

You will need courage to face an uncomfortable truth:

Minoo Jha

 · 4y

Why are people scared of telling the truth?

Because the truth may be hard to swallow. When it comes to the truth, each of us has a choice - one, to live in denial or find someone to blame, or two, to seek the truth (about ourselves and about situations and circumstances in our life) and then make the changes that may be necessary. I am strongly for the second option, as this piece I wrote indicates: Sincerely Yours We sign off our letters, Sincerely Yours. But are we sincere? Do people in our lives really know how we feel? Or do we hold back? Do we have secret thoughts and feelings about ourselves that we don't share with them? Do we have secret thoughts and feelings about them, that we don't share with them? We may think we have good reasons to keep some of our thoughts, feelings, and actions secret: If the hidden truth is about ourselves, the truth may be embarrassing or devastating. We are scared of our image being tarnished. We are afraid people will shy away from us, if they knew something about us. Some people were scandalized when I admitted being carried out drunk from restaurants in my younger days. If the hidden truths are, not about us, but about other people we deal with, it is because we may not want to hurt their feelings. Or we may want to keep the peace. Hidden truths can be small truths. Or big, devastating truths. A depression. A desire to end your life. A communicable disease . An addiction. Or just not being what, or who, everyone thinks we are. Examples: Perception: Everyone thinks you are rich. Reality: You are bankrupt. Perception: Everyone thinks you are an upstanding member of society. Reality: You have a terrible addiction, or you are, or have been involved in, some seedy underhand dealings where you used your power to use, manipulate, bribe, seduce, threaten, or deceive innocent, powerless, or vulnerable people. Perception: Everyone thinks you are pro-life and care about children. Reality: You have had children out of wedlock that you couldn't care 2 hoots about. Perception: Publicly, you are outspoken in your disapproving thoughts about homosexuality. Reality: You are a closet homosexual. The truth is a terrible and scary thing. When I suffered a depression, I initially hid it from everybody. It was my big, devastating hidden truth. You can see how the successful owner of a business, who seemingly has everything - " a great business, a fit body, a great marriage - would want to hide the fact she is depressed. And yet, the more devastating the truth, the more it needs to be poured from one heart into another heart. Even if the truth knocks you off your pedestal. For sure, having a depression knocked me off my pedestal as the "gal who had it all". But I knew keeping it a secret was not the right thing to do. If there was any hope for me to recover from it, it would come from sharing it with someone else, which I did. So these are my thoughts on the truth... I believe sharing the truth helps us more than it hurts us. Hopefully, this means you can count on me to tell you the truth. Just say, "Minoo, I want your sincere advice, " and I will give it to you. Sometimes I will give you the truth, even when you don't ask me for it. This is because truth has become a value to me. Which is why I am writing a piece about it. Signing off, Sincerely yours, Minoo

You will need courage to go against stereotypes:

Minoo Jha

 · 6y

What is the best way to become successful as a woman?

Hi, You asked, What is the best way to become successful as a woman? I started off as a dependent cry baby. I became a strong, independent woman. Here’s how I did it (reprinted from a post with the same title on my blog). How I Went From A Girlie Girl to A Strong, Independent Woman It Doesn't Matter Where You Started, What Matters Is Where You Plan to End I learned to live alone. I learned to drive. I learned to make my own decisions. I learned to manage money on my own. I learned to value myself outside of a relationship. I learned to value what was in my head and heart, over the way I looked. I changed my focus to what I did, and how I acted. I stopped measuring myself against traditional ideas of ‘feminine’ success. I stopped identifying myself with my child’s successes and failures. I started setting boundaries on what I would, and would not, accept. I stopped being passive-aggressive, and learned to speak up. I started handling more things on my own. I became more self-sufficient. I started getting involved in things I used to hand over to men. (While I do not know how to fix my car, I get fully involved with every repair – researching the facts and becoming knowledgeable – whether it’s the blend door actuator on my air-conditioner, or a rack and pinion steering issue.) I learned to take charge, and make choices which made the most financial sense, covering all the bases - my housing, my car, my taxes, my insurance, my investments, my utilities, my child’s education, my health. I learned to make my voice heard through my blog. I learned to stop second guessing myself, and beating myself up for flaws or slips. I learned to take risks. Finally, I learned it does not matter where you started. What matters more is where you plan to end. So this is my advice to you: Sit at the table. Take smart risks. Seek challenges. Pursue your goals with gusto. And know, you can do it, exactly as you are. You are enough.

You will need courage to succeed if you are in a minority, for example, the only woman in a group:

Minoo Jha

 · 9mo

Are all women manipulative?

People pleasing, emotional blackmail, and manipulation are learned behaviors, and have their roots in the historical expectations of what behaviors are expected from a woman. Throughout history, and even in current times, women have been expected to be quiet, passive, soft-spoken, submissive, gentle, kind, and undemanding. It is very important to be “UNDEMANDING”. To demand NOTHING. Speaking out, standing out, and DEMANDING anything, is frowned upon. It is thought to be shrewish and UNWOMANLY. This is what makes many women, as modern as they are, resort to people pleasing, emotional blackmail, manipulation, lies, and other forms of deceptive behavior, when they have to get what they want. They are afraid of criticism, condemnation, and being rejected, or ostracized, if they decide to be truthful and assertive, about their wants and needs. They are mortally afraid of being DEMANDING, and being seen as UNWOMANLY, because of it. Many women take pains to preserve a Madonna image of being passive, soft-spoken, submissive, gentle, and kind. Women who are conflicted, and who are afraid, in the way I have described, are reluctant to try to change their circumstances, or aim for a better life, based on their own efforts. They are convinced (or have allowed themselves to be convinced) that the way to a better life, is to attract a wealthy man, who will provide for them. They believe the only way to pull this off, is to spend all manner of money and time on looking good, excelling in the home arts, being passive and submissive, and keeping up a superficially pleasant demeanor at all times. In this way, the ideal of the quiet, passive, soft-spoken, submissive, gentle, kind, and undemanding woman is perpetuated, in spite of all the advances women have made. The choices of women like Hilary Clinton and Malala Yusafais, who are brave enough to buck this trend, are frowned at, and looked down upon. They will get scorn and more, for their daring to one, want more for themselves, and two, to approach what they want differently - by speaking up. Why should a woman have to be pleasing, passive, submissive, soft, gentle, kind, and undemanding? Why should a woman have to use people pleasing, guile, and manipulation, to get her way? Why can’t a woman be her authentic self? Why can’t a woman speak up for her needs, just like a man would? If you are a woman, I encourage you to pursue what you want, while being who you are. I hope the poem below gives you courage. Courageous women never look back. Do It Anyway - Women on the Rise Version Men (and women who are afraid to do the things you want to do) may say you are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered for having a non-traditional vision for yourself. Do it anyway. The most important people in your life (your family and relatives) may think you are way out of line and shame you, for wanting something that the community you were born into, the society you were born into, or the religion you were born into, frowns upon. Forgive them for their lack of understanding and do it anyway. If you decide to say something about something that needs talking about, you may be branded as a hater, an ignoramus, and a troublemaker, by popular and powerful people. Use your voice and say the things you need to say anyway. If you are successful in a role and in a field where women are in the minority, many men and women might try to dismiss, discredit, or diminish what you do on both public and private platforms. Continue to blaze a trail in that field anyway. Don't let that unnerve you. If you say things in a forthright way - and without a smile, men (and women who are used to people-pleasing) will call you unpleasant, unappealing, bossy, a shrew, unsexy, lacking in charm, and more. Be honest and frank (and give yourself permission not to smile) anyway. If you want to create or build something that's ambitious and challenging, especially for a woman, you risk enduring excessive public humiliation if you fail. Have big aims and aim to build anyway. If you have found your serenity and happiness making choices that are not typical for your sex, you may be looked upon as a poor role model or a weirdo. Make those choices anyway. As the ending lines of the original "Do It Anyway" Mother Teresa poem say... “Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give the world the best you’ve got anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and your God. It was never between you and them anyway.”

Can mindset affect financial success?

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Can mindset affect financial success?

Yes, especially if someone has a “material acquisition” mindset, rather than a “financial goal” mindset.

The difference between a “material acquisition” mindset and a “financial goal” mindset is like night and day.

A “material acquisition” mindset is focused on accumulating “material things”.

A “financial goal" mindset is focused on accumulating “financial assets” in order to achieve different goals.

From basic goals, such as building an emergency cushion.

To big goals, such as saving for a house, a child's education, a post-working secure future, or the ambitious, but achievable goal of financial freedom.

The money that goes into financial assets does different things than the money that goes into material assets.

Financial assets produce income.

Material assets consume income.

I am talking about personal material assets, here.

In other words, nice things.

A nice house in a cool neighborhood is a material asset.

It consumes income.

While all houses consume income, a house in a less cool neighborhood will consume less income.

But people rarely want a house in a less cool neighborhood.

They want a house in a cool neighborhood.

There are two underlying mindsets at play for that.

One is a mindset of “It looks or sounds so nice. I must have it now".

Two, is a “keeping up with the Joneses” mindset.

The combination of the two results in a person with those mindsets, using up all the money they earn, on maintaining their "keeping up with the Joneses" lifestyle, and continuously buying experiences and things.

And when what they earn, is not enough to keep up, they borrow money, or max out credit cards and/or personal loans.

This comes at the cost of their financial security, sometimes, also at the cost of alienating (turning off) their family and friends.

And it usually puts them very much behind, not just behind the people whose lifestyles they were keeping up with, but behind less well-off family and friends, as well.

If it’s not a house, and things which make up a house (hard wood floors, granite countertops, fancy appliances, etc), it’s cars.

Cars, like houses, consume rather than produce income.

In fact, they consume lots of income.

Upfront income. Ongoing income. The purchase price, the sales tax. the registration, the insurance, the gas, the maintenance, the repairs.

It doesn’t matter that you bought the car with cash, and didn’t use financing.

Maybe you are not paying interest, by buying the car with cash.

But the cash you used to buy the car is hard-earned income, and hard-saved income.

That hard-saved income could have been used to create wealth, or be used to produce more income, instead of all being used on a single new and fancy car.

Buying a used car would have left some money for you to to build an emergency cushion, or if you have that, to invest towards a future goal such as a house, or a child's education, or your post-working days.

Houses, cars, name-brand clothes, expensive restaurant meals, sports games, concerts, vacations… if it’s not one thing, it’s another.

There are limitless ways to consume income.

There are fewer ways to produce income.

It comes down to a job, or two jobs, a business, or investments.

Financially successful people have one or more, of these things. Usually, at least two of these things.

They use debt, but when they use debt, they use it to produce income, rather than consume income, as books like Rich Dad Poor Dad advise....

Minoo Jha

· 2y

What does Robert Kiyosaki mean when he says "living debt-free is the worst advice you could give anybody today"?

He believes in using OTM to acquiring assets that produce an income, such as rental properties. His book was life-changing for many, and was one of the books that had the effect of a starter gun on me. It had an even more powerful impact on a friend of mine. Here’s what you need to know…

Financially successful people are so focused on producing, or finding more capital for what they produce, they don’t care whether they live in a fancy neighborhood, have a fancy car, or go on fancy vacations.

They know those things will come later, as a product of focusing on producing more income.

Being focused on building their stream, or streams of income, they are safe from unnecessarily expensive personal purchases, while they are in the producing stage.

They will be observed to spend less on cars, clothes, vacations, hobbies, etc, relative to what they are earning.

Money is continuously steered towards a financial goal, or towards producing more income.

Consuming is largely absent from, or a minimal part, of a producer’s mindset.

A producer’s mindset is focused on production, and/or their mission.

Capital opportunities to further production, to further the mission, are more attractive to them, than stuff that’s on sale.

The annual Nordstrom Sale or Geoffrey Beane sale is not marked on their calendars.

Producers also do not try to display wealth to attract a partner, or to display looks to attract a partner.

They know that displaying wealth, and actually having wealth, are two different things.

What’s the point of wealth display, without actual wealth, especially if it reduces, rather than enhances your financial security.

What’s the point of a looks display, without wealth to support it, and at the price of your future financial security?

For the person trapped in the looks display or wealth display mindset, financial security will be very hard to achieve.

And because one can’t fight age, or debtors, indefinitely - one or the other will catch up to them, eventually.

So my advice for anyone reading this, is to drop the consuming mindset, and switch to a producing mindset.

Take up a more high paying job.

Start a business and focus on growing it.

Invest in income-producing, or capital appreciation assets.

The more you invest, the more Interest and dividends you can earn, the more your investment grows, the more your stash of cash will grow.

Spend less, save more.

Become a minimalist.

The answer to a stash of cash may be as simple as that.

Minoo Jha

· 7y

Could minimalism be the key to financial freedom?

Hi, You asked, Could minimalism be the key to financial freedom? Yes, short of living in a tent, I am comfortably off because of living a minimalist life. Here’s how I did it… I internalized Suze Orman. I started meditating. (The book “How God Changes Your Brain” gave me both my motivation and my technique). I stopped being a nervous Nellie about my future, accepting that the future was hamarey bas ki baat nahi (Hindi for “beyond my control/capacity/competence”). I channeled stories such as the Farid ud-Din Attar story about King Mahmud and the Beans. I started tracking my expenses. I found that knowing my average monthly expenditure was within a certain range made me oodles less anxious. I searched for and read books on downshifting like Your Money or Your Life. I found out how simply some folks were living (friends and relatives in India) and how happy and content they were. It helped me develop perspective. I realized that things are not always what they seem. That people who looked better off than me with expensive cars, nice houses, the latest gadgets and who went on fabulous holidays might actually be reeling in debt and have negative net worth. I also observed how many people who are better off than me fret more than me. This is because though they are rich in externals (the visible accoutrements of a successful life), they are poor in internals (their internal life is messy). Peace and contentment can’t be bought. It is a gift you give yourself. You can be at peace even living in a crowded noisy apartment complex, whereas you can be in a state of turmoil even in the quietest most luxurious and secluded waterfront mansion. I know this sounds like a “sour grapes” rationalization, but I really do fret less than many people who are materially far better off than me. I discovered “Asteya” and made it one of my goals. Asteya is the discipline of taking from the world only what you need – without greed, excess, or wastage. I realized that producing something (expression) was more satisfying than owning anything (consumption). I observed that more stuff made me less happy rather than more happy – giving me more house cleaning, maintenance and security to worry about. And finally, I observed what made me happy. They were not things, but experiences. A good conversation. A good read. A walk or talk with a friend. A simple hearty meal. A guest post (hint,hint). A satisfying workout at the gym. Giving and receiving appreciation. Learning something new. My meditations. A fear or weakness conquered. An intellectual puzzle solved. A physical challenge met. And realizing this, I was able to cheerfully and contentedly declare “I’m good!”

Spend some time today, thinking about how you can improve your financial security.

If until now, you’ve been largely focused on buying goods and services to improve this or that aspect of your life, it will require a mindset shift.

It will also require you to be realistic.

Making money is not easy.

Hard work and sacrifices may be required to improve your financial security.

Accept the reality of that.

You can't have the mindset that you will only take up an easy, comfortable job, with low stress, flexible hours, an easy commute, or only do a business that you can do from home.

You only have to try these things once, to realize that what looked like easy money, isn't easy money.

It's easy, but there isn't any money.

Save the easy money mindset for the times in your life, when you are a parent of a young child, or you have an ill family member to take care of.

You should certainly not make it your standard operating system.

You will shackle your ability to earn money, and save money, if you operate with that mindset.

Replace that “easy job”, or “easy business venture” mindset with a “mission”, and/or a “financial goal” mindset.

Get into the right money producing occupation - whether that is a job, a business venture, or a mission.

And keep at it, until all your financial goals are reached.

Remind yourself regularly, why it’s worth your time, to give it all you've got...

Minoo Jha

· 5y

Why does it seem easier to give up than just not try again?

Because of the thought that trying again may result in nothing. But there are many circumstances in which we should consider doubling down rather than giving up. I wrote this piece to highlight some of those circumstances: 25 Circumstances In Which You Should Consider Doubling Down On Your Resolve When the money is worth it. When the opportunity is worth it. When it is essential to achieving your potential. When you have a worthwhile goal. When you have nothing to lose. When you have a lot to learn. When you really (really) want something. If your conscience says you should. If it’s a possible stepping stone to big things. When your intuition tells you to. When your financial position is at risk. If it is what you need to do to tide over. When a value that is important to you is on the line. If it’s important to you not to feel like a quitter. If it involves any habit you need to give up. When you want to break a pattern. If it’s a life and death situation. When you’ve invested time and money, and victory feels close. When people are depending on you. When turning back would have negative consequences. If your physical or emotional health will be positively impacted. If it is important to your spiritual growth. If it is important to your self-worth. If it will increase your tolerance of challenges, frustration, and criticism. If it will build your character. ******************** When you double down on your resolve, you effectively create your own boot camp. Going through your personalized 'circumstantial' boot camp, will make you stronger, and more confident in your ability to handle tough challenges. A quitter mentality never made anyone feel good. An easy-way-out mentality never made anyone feel good. It is your hard achievements which will make you feel good. Make sure your goals are hard and worthwhile goals to pursue. Then resolve to double down, even triple down, on your resolve to achieve those goals. I urge you to bump up your motivation to a new level by breaking out of convenience, comfort and the status quo, and going for something bigger. Here's a sampling of my thoughts on that, taken from the concluding lines of another piece I wrote: "You can’t write a blog without actively choosing fear. When you sit down to write a piece, you fear being boring, being repetitive, being out of touch, and being irrelevant. I face that fear every week when I sit down to write. Convenience. Comfort. Status Quo. Inconvenience. Discomfort. Breakthrough. The fact that I continue to write tells you what my spirit has chosen." I will end with this powerful message from Joe De Sena who conducts the Spartan Up races: “When you break through the other side of hell and finish an event that did not seem possible, that stopped you in your tracks, over and over, something happens. You feel accomplished, incredibly proud of yourself, and in some ways, a different person” You are going to feel accomplished, incredibly proud of yourself, and a different person for trying and trying again.

Whatever you do, don’t pair the “easy income”, “easy mission” mindset, with a “spend to the paycheck on personal indulgences, and use debt when the paycheck is insufficient” mindset.

That will doom your efforts to achieve your financial goals, even before you begin.

Choose a job that pays you well

And then choose financial success or mission success, over material success, as your goal.

One last word -

It’s never too late to wake up.

It’s never too late to stop following the crowd.

It’s never to late to think radically differently.