Sunday, March 27, 2016

How To Write 322 Posts - Part 2



Look to your family.  You should be able to mine family traditions, family stories, even family pets, for posts.  Think about your family today.  What are some of the interesting things about your family?  What story is ripe for the telling?  Get your pen out and write about it. Need inspiration? Check out some of my family posts:


Write a prologue to upcoming posts.  This is a simple method to get 2 posts out of one.  I have written prologues to many posts. Most of them were prologues to guest posts contributed by relatives and friends. Want to get some prologue practice? Think about something you have read. What would be a good prologue to it?  Get your pen out and give your prologue a try.  Need inspiration?  Check out some of my prologue posts.







Don’t write all your posts. What?  What do you mean, Minoo?  I mean exactly what I said.  You don’t need to write all your posts. You can publish other people’s work on your blog.  How? Invite your readers to guest post. And don’t stop there. If you come across a good piece of writing, request the writer to let you publish it.  In 2011, Tanita showed me an essay that one of her school friends John Paraskevopoulos had written.  I loved it, and asked her to ask him to let me publish it on my blog. The 322 posts on my blog include John’s post.

Look for connections.  How is your life intertwined with someone else’s? How is something like something else?  Explore the connections between x and y to come up with ideas for posts.

I found a connection between Lakshmi Mittal and myself (yes, that Lakshmi Mittal, who lives in the Taj Mittal, and is the richest UK resident of Asian descent), and I turned it into a post.

I found a connection between success and the weeds in your garden (yes the same weeds you bring out your Raid can for), and I turned it into a post.

I found a connection between Indian spices and a good speech, and I turned it into a post.

Last but not least, Jacinta, who is both a relative through marriage, and more than that, a friend, sent me a post on how her life was intertwined with one of the students in the school where she taught. The post, Kushboo, brought a lump to my throat, and will bring a lump to your throat as well.

Pass on your knowledge.  Based on your career, background, exposure, and interests, you will have knowledge you can pass on.   Pass this knowledge on.   Don’t keep it to yourself. Life is a discovery.  You will find new things to pass on every day.  Even just making mention of something could expand someone’s horizons. So go for it. Need inspiration?  Check out some of the posts in which I passed on nuggets of information. 


In 5 Secrets to Buying A Used Car With Confidence, I told you about resources you can use to buy a used car.

In Psst....Want To Know How Your Hiring Strategy Compares With Google's?, I told you about Google’s Lake Wobegon hiring strategy.

In Advice from a Retired Elf to an Aspiring Elf, I dropped a nugget about Dr. Ronesh Sinha’s South Asian Health Solution, and how to understand glucose metabolism.

In How Pete is Voting, I told you about a Bay Area resident, who has been educating everyone on the propositions on the state ballot, since 1980.

Put on your therapist hat.  Like it or not, there are many situations in which you will be forced to play amateur psychologist.  Bring those skills to the fore.  Analyze the choices people make – whether it’s cars, stars, or even the daily cuppa.  In no time, you will have an amusing, if not, thought-provoking post.  Need inspiration? Check out some posts, in which I channeled my inner amateur psychologist...

What Your Starbucks Drink Says About You 

Write About People You Admire. Do you admire someone?  Don’t waste an opportunity.  Create an homage to them in print. Need inspiration? Check out the following posts:


Keep a Sharp Eye and Ear for Everything You See and Hear. Anything you see and hear can become a post.  Interesting observations and experiences are just asking to be told.  When my daughter told me this story, I couldn’t wait to publish it…..


On one of my assignments, I couldn’t believe the number of different acronyms I had heard in one day; and I couldn’t wait to tell my readers about it in OMG - You've Been Acked.

I also enjoyed telling my friend Helen's story (and Emilio Estefan's story) in The Element of Independence and Its Hope For Becoming All We Are Meant to Be.

Get The Audience to Participate.  Some of my most popular posts have been quizzes, where I have asked my readers to put on their guessing hats.  You too can create quiz posts, which are guaranteed to be hits.  Need inspiration?  Check out the following posts:





Finally, Just Do It.  Just write.  Don’t get yourself tied up in knots about themes, overarching concepts, writing consistency, blah, blah, blah.  Don’t over think it.  That’s the most important advice of all to getting to 322 posts.  If you have been dithering, Joseph Sestito’s book Write For Your Lives will help you stop. Read it.

As always, thanks for reading and have a great day and week….M….a Pearl Seeker like you.  Thanks to Ajay, Shiva and Rosie for their comments and compliments on my last post, and thanks to the rest of you for your likes, pins, shares, tweets and votes…..Much appreciated! Happy Easter to all of you.

Sunday, March 20, 2016

How To Write 322 Posts


Here are some tips:

1.    Start writing. That’s the first step.   To write Post #2, you have to write Post #1. To write Post #3, you have to write Post #2, which of course, you can only write, after you write Post #1. So it all goes back to writing that first post.  So do it. Write that first post.  That’s Step 1.

I completed Step 1 on December 27 of 2010, when I wrote my first post, 4 Decisions I Wish I Had Made Earlier.

2.    Keep going.  After you write Post #1, write Post #2. After you write Post #2, write Post #3.  The important thing is to keep going.


3.    Write to a schedule.  Write once a day.  Write once a week.  Or write once a month.  By committing to a schedule, you will make writing a habit.  That is what you want to do, if you want to write 322 posts.  Make writing a habit.

I started by writing every other day.  Then I cut back to writing once a week. Since I started the once-a-week schedule, I have been faithfully writing every week (skipping a week or two only occasionally). This is how I got to 322 posts.

4.    Pick a fixed day of the week to publish your posts.  This will force you to work to a deadline.  You know how effective deadlines are, whether it is completing a project at work, or finishing your taxes.  Writing is no different.

My weekly deadline is every Sunday.  I work to finishing and getting a new post out every Sunday.

5.    Let people know about your posts.  You need feedback and encouragement to keep going.  You can get that by letting people know about your posts.  You can use email, Facebook, Google, Twitter, Pinterest and LinkedIn.

I let people know about my posts through all of these mediums. I post the links to new posts with a thumbnail of the picture on Google, Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter.  My blog is also listed in my Linkedin profile.

6.    When you get an idea for a post, jot it down.  So you can be ready when the inspiration strikes.  When the inspiration strikes, weeks, months, even years later, you'll be glad you did.

I jotted down the idea for my United States of Friendship series of posts at least two years before I wrote the posts.

7.    Keep an eye out for material to write on.  Books you read, movies you watch, ideas, thoughts and knowledge you want to pass on – anything can become a post.


8.    Read books and articles which can help you in your writing, especially books and articles which can release you from Writer’s Block, and from second-guessing your writing. Becoming a blogger takes courage - we have to be unafraid to see our work, which will sometimes be good, and sometimes not so good, in print.    

I have read and re-read Joseph Sestito’s Write For Your Lives, several times for this reason.

9.    Don’t be afraid to use personal narrative.  Personal narratives are interesting, because we all have such different life experiences.

I have written about many experiences in my life, from conquering a depression, to losing money in the stock market, to transforming from Tiger Mom and Helicopter Mom to Hippy Mom, to telling you why I can never get a job at Google.  And several guest posters have done that too; Ajay Sachdev in A Short Stint in Advertising, Jacinta in Kushboo and A Facebook Faceoff, Anita in A Fresh Perspective on Pets, Cindy in Flying Lessons, and John Paraskevopoulos in The Colors of Life.

10.Write from the heart.  Some forms of writing such as tributes lend themselves wonderfully to writing from the heart.

See my tributes to Steve Jobs and to my Uncle Al for examples.

These are some tips to writing 322 posts.  Hope they inspire you to pick up your pen and pad, and start writing. Guest posters and aspiring guest posters...this is a big hint. I would love to open an email from you, and find a guest post which you have written, and would like to contribute to my blog. Who is going to be the first one to do it? Is it you?

As always, thanks for reading and have a great day and week….M…..a Pearl Seeker like you.  Thanks to Ajay and Rosie for their feedback on my last posts, and thanks to the rest of you for your likes, pins, tweets and shares.  Much Appreciated.

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Sunday, March 13, 2016

The Element of Putting Our Plans Into Motion and Its Hope for Unexpected and Exciting Developments


The other day, I listened to a podcast on which the BulletProofexec was interviewing Urban Monk about productivity. Urban Monk talked about a time management technique called Pomodoro.  Pomodoro is a technique where you work for 25 minutes straight on something, and then take a break.  Each of the 25 minutes you give to a task is called a Pomodoro.  You mark your successful Pomodoros with an X. After 4 Pomodoros, you give yourself a 15-20 minute break.  It was great to learn a new productivity concept from listening to the podcast between the BulletProofexec and Urban Monk.  After listening to it, I was thinking we should give every year a theme.  We could make this year The Year of Productivity.

The Urban Monk talked about sticking to what's on your calendar as far as possible - for the day, for the week, and for the month.

Some of my friends are very calendar oriented.  I have not been very calendar oriented.  This is why some of my to-dos stay on my list forever, and I often get my dates and times wrong.

Last year, I got the date of two events I was invited to wrong, and showed up on the wrong day. 

One event was at a park, and I went round and round the park - which had many entrances - on a very hot day, wondering where everybody was.

Eventually, I gave up and went home. When I checked the Evite, I discovered the event was the next day, and I had already scheduled something for that day.  Drat. It was because I had hastily read the invite, and failed to put it on a calendar.

The Urban Monk also talked about setting 30 day goals, 60 day goals and 90 day goals. 

I am unable to think far out.  In fact, I achieve many things because of luck and serendipity. 

If you had told me a year or a year and a half ago, I would become a practitioner of something called IF (intermittent fasting) and that I would have lost all the weight I have lost, I wouldn't have believed it, because I did not even know about intermittent fasting at the time, and the idea of skipping breakfast would have been preposterous. And yet, by sheer accident, I discovered IF on the internet, and based on reading articles published by reputed hospitals such as Mayo Clinic and John Hopkins, I decided to give it a whirl. I found it to be easier than I thought, and it made me challenge some misconceptions I had of what I was capable of doing and what I was not.  I found out I could skip breakfast and what's more, I could do a vigorous workout in a fasted state. So here I am, several months later, still doing IF, and reaping the benefits.

Likewise, a call with my friend Krystyna and the cabinet under my kitchen sink giving way, were the two factors which led to my apartment getting new carpet, vinyl and paint.  How it happened was that I was on the phone with Krystyna, and I said how I would love to start entertaining in my apartment again, but my apartment was a dump, and I would need to hire some painters and carpeters to spruce it up, before I could even think about doing that. She said, “Minoo, why don’t you ask the apartment managers?  You’ve lived there for so long.  Surely, they will do it for free.” A few days  later, the cabinet under my kitchen sink collapsed because of a leak. I called the apartment office to ask them to send someone to fix it. When they picked up the phone, I thought of what Krystyna had said, and I said “Hey Jacky (that’s our apartment manager) do you think I could get the apartment fixed up?  I know we talked about doing this before, but it seemed like too much work for me to move everything, so I never got around to it. But now, I was thinking, if we pick just a few areas, such as the living room and guest bathroom,  I think it will be enough for me to start entertaining again.  “Sure, Minoo” she said.  Next thing, I knew, the maintenance guy Don was at my door to fix the kitchen cabinet, and he said, “Jacky told me you want to get some work done.”  I said, “Yes.”  “Can you show me what you would like done?” he said.  So I showed him, and I said, “it would be nice if I could also get the master bathroom shower redone.  He said “Sure, I  can add that to the order. When would you like to get the work done?  It was mid December, and I said, “How about around mid-Jan?”  Shortly after mid-Jan, I got a call from him – Ms. Jha, we would like to do your apartment this week, since we are doing the apartment across the landing.  So by the end of Jan, it was done.  Just like that. It was the conversation with Krystyna, and my cabinet under the kitchen sink giving way which got the ball rolling. Not any specific plans that I had made.

Likewise, I recently moved from an assignment at Aruba to an assignment at another tech company.  One of the things I was tasked with, was to create statements for new hires in an Excel workbook that already had 637 statements. I had to tab to different sections of the Excel workbook, so I could create the statements for the new payees in the section of the workbook where they belonged.  I knew a few different ways to do this, all laborious and time consuming.  I had never worked with Excel files containing so many worksheets before. I found myself thinking, there has to be an easier way.  I decided to search on the internet for a vba solution.  Bingo!  I found macros to activate a sheet, to move sheets before or after specific sheets, to copy selected sheets to a new book, and to grab information from all of the sheets.  I lost no time in putting these macros to use.  Now, 30 days later, I have expanded the list of macros I am using to 10.  I did not plan to find vba to do things in Excel before I started this assignment.  So I am quite excited by the turn of events.

Getting this new assignment in itself, was quite unplanned.  Just when my assignment at Aruba got reduced to 20 hours a week from 40 hours a week, I got a call from the manager of a staffing agency to find out if I would be interested in a position which had become available at a company nearby to Aruba.  I said, “I am only doing 20 hours a week at Aruba starting next week, so maybe I could help this other company out for 20 hours a week, until my Aruba assignment ends in a few months.  Would they go for that  – it would give them an opportunity to find out what I was made of, and whether I had the right skills set.  The recruiter put it to the hiring manager, and soon we were on a phone interview.  After talking with me for a few minutes, the hiring manager said to me, “Minoo, my only reservation is that, we will go through all the effort to train you, only to have you leave.”  I said, “That's true. But I will be there as long as you need me, and it will give you breathing room to back fill the Commissions Manager position.  Is that a value to you? If it's not, then you shouldn’t take me on.  You know best what you need. What I said seemed to make sense. So boom – two days later, I was clocking in at this new company to help hold the fort, until they found a new Commissions Manager.  Once again, I had not made any specific plans to look for another assignment to fill the 20 available hours, when this happened.

Likewise, I never really thought I would be able to write fiction.  And yet, here I am now, with several fiction or semi-fiction pieces under my belt - Advice from a Retired Elf to an Aspiring Elf, A Christmas Tradition is Restored, The Day the New Ruj Das Began, The Ticking Clock Association, and How Cupid 732 Got His Groove Back.  I achieved this, in spite of not having any specific goals to write fiction.

Of course, one can argue, Minoo, you may not have planned these developments, but you were fully prepared for them. It is true.  Which is what this post is about.  When we put our plans into motion, unexpected and exciting developments can occur, and probably will occur; we may not be able to anticipate the exact developments, but we potentiate a range of possible developments by putting our plans in motion; so the idea that if I keep at my writing, it may lead me down new writing paths; the idea that by desiring to get my house straightened up and making it a goal for 2016, it created the potential for me to realize this desire, and see it materialize in an unexpectedly good way; the idea that by jumping in to help out a company in a jam, it created the potential for me to find new ways to tackle laborious tasks, is correct.

The main drivers to putting things in motion are motivation and action. We have to be motivated. For that we have to be passionate about achieving something; or passionate about avoiding something.

When I came to America, I was motivated to do what it took to support myself and my daughter.  So I learned driving, because it was essential to supporting myself and my daughter.

We may be equally motivated by what we want to avoid.

I became a Commissions Consultant, because I wanted to take back the power employers had over my time, and how I used it.

But we can’t say we want to do something, or we want to avoid something, and not take any action.

We can’t say, “I want to lose weight” or “I want to blog”, and not take action.

We have to take action.

And not only do we have to take action, like Colonel Sanders who founded KFC, we have to be prepared to try and try again.

I was speaking to my friend Julia, who has been my unofficial nutrition consultant, for the past 15 years. I told her I would be very disappointed if my fasting blood sugar reading had not improved in my next blood test, considering how much weight I had lost, and how good I have been about trying to improve my insulin sensitivity through IF (intermittent fasting).  She said, “Minoo, there will be other things you can try, if that turns out to be the case.  Never lose hope.”  Wise words, indeed. We should never give up trying.

One of my friends recently published his first blog post.  By doing that, he has put his ideas and plans into motion.

Motivation and action are the main drivers of achievement.  But there is a third driver.  You have to persist.  You have to stay motivated and do it again. And again. And again.  Like I do with my blog posts.

For instance, now that my apartment has got fresh paint and carpet, I have to keep up with maintaining it, otherwise, it will be back to where it was before, in no time.

My friend will have to keep writing, if he is to keep his blog going.

We each are on an individual quest - to utilize our God-given potential, to achieve our goals, to take advantage of opportunities, and to fulfill the purpose for which we have been created.

We should put good things, and things of significance, into motion.

I like that I have put my blog into motion, because I know it is of significance - even if I don't have as interesting things to say, as this guy, or this guy.

We should put good things into motion, and trust that good things will come of it.

In 2010, unemployed after walking out of a job, I decided to do the Xactly course on my own dime.

By doing that, I put things in motion.

I did not have on the job Xactly experience, but now I had Xactly training credentials under my belt.

When I was hired by Solution Partners to join their Xactly Implementations team, the general manager who hired me, told me he was impressed I had done the Xactly Administrators course on my own dime.  It showed my keenness to learn and use the Xactly platform.

What can you put in motion that will have a significant impact on your life?

It could be anything.

Since 2010, I have been making different decisions.  Doing the Xactly course on my own dime was only one of these decisions.

I started the blog in 2010.  I learned to meditate.  I became a Commissions Consultant, my first gig being with Solution Partners, a gig that gave me exposure to a different side of commissions at exciting companies like Splunk, FusionIo, Lynda,.com and Salesforce Inc.

By becoming a consultant, I put in motion a different destiny for myself, a destiny that would bring me into contact with many staffing agencies, implementation companies, and client companies, and bring many different opportunities my way.

Each new opportunity results in new contacts and friendships, exposure to new concepts and challenges, and an expansion of my capabilities and skills.

If you look at what made me successful before 2010, it is not the same things that have made me successful since 2010.

I have learned to maximize the use of my time and my energy and my skills.

So let’s come back to you again.

What can you put into motion?

And how can you put the drivers of motivation and action and repeated action to work for you?

I will end with this quote by Tony Robbins:

Success comes from taking the initiative and following up... persisting... eloquently expressing the depth of your love. What simple action could you take today to produce a new momentum toward success in your life?

As always, thanks for reading and have a great day and week….M….a Pearl Seeker like you. Thanks to Ajay and David for their compliments on my last post, and thanks to the rest of you for your likes, pins, shares and votes.  Much appreciated! 

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