Sunday, August 25, 2019

How Do I Figure Out Who I Really Am?

Some ways to do this are through the following:
Myers Briggs
Birkman
Clifton Strengths
They are well known assessment products.
You will need to pay to get those assessments done.
If you don’t want to open your wallet, there are some free personality tests available online.
Such as the one available on 16 personalities.
Sometimes, just giving yourself some quiet time and staying with the thought, “who am I?” will do the trick.
One final suggestion.
Who are the people you know whose opinions you trust?
I would take them out for coffee, and tell them in advance you plan to pick their brain on your future direction.
Over coffee (which of course you pay for), you share that you are trying to figure out who you are.
Invite them to share their thoughts and suggestions about you, as well as the advice they have for you.
This is sure to turn up some unknown treasure.
I found out I am good at internet search thanks to a friend’s suggestion.
Tip - if you go the coffee route, you must respect the time of the person you are meeting with - only take as much time as you have agreed on in advance. If you are not able to do that, then, clearly one of the things you are is “a nuisance”. No need for an assessment for me to tell you that.

Sunday, August 18, 2019

The Seed of Greatness


The seeds were arguing.
“I am the seed of beauty,” said the Rose seed.
“No, I am the seed of beauty,” said the Orchid seed, “you are the seed of the finest scent known to mankind.
“Na-hah” said the Jasmine seed. “I am the seed of the finest scent known to mankind.”
Immediately, the Lavender seed shook her head. “As if! What rubbish! Everyone knows I am the seed of the finest scent known to mankind.”
“I think I can safely say - and no one will argue. I am the seed of mightiness,” said the Oak seed.
“I am like the lion of seeds, the king of the jungle of seeds, if you know what I mean.”
At this, the other seeds paused and thought what a show-off Oak seed was being.
Their thoughts were interrupted by the Sunflower seed, who said, “As for me, of course, I am the seed of happiness.”
“I beg your pardon,” said the Rose seed, “but are sunflowers given out on Valentine’s Day?”
“I beg your pardon, again” said the Cannabis seed, “I think I have better claims than either you, Rose seed, or you, Sunflower seed, to being the seed of happiness.”
“It would be me, actually,” said the Grape seed. “And I have centuries more of happiness delivery to prove it.
The Weed seed suddenly piped up, “You seeds may think I am good for nothing, but you all may have overlooked something.”
The other seeds paused to listen.
“I am the seed of persistence.  I don’t think anyone would argue that. Grass seed can tell you.”
“More like the seed of pestilence,” thought Grass seed.
Meanwhile, all the Fruit seeds and Vegetable seeds, the Rice seed, and the Nut seeds, the Wheat seed, and the Corn seed, were off to a side, looking on.
“We are not getting a chance to say anything for ourselves,” said the Apple seed.
“Don’t mind them,” said the Olive seed, “We are the seeds of human nourishment and human nutrition…their claims are fluff compared to ours.”
“But I can’t help feel small,” said the Mustard seed; “It seems like physical sustenance is not all that human beings live for.
Suddenly a voice out of nowhere declared, “Physical sustenance is definitely not all that human beings live for.”
The seeds looked wildly around to find out which seed had said that.
“Who said that?  Show yourself,” said the Oak seed.
“It is I,” said the voice, “I am the Seed of Greatness. I cannot come forward, because I do not have a physical appearance.”
“No physical appearance? said the Oak seed, “I don't understand what possible purpose you could serve.”
“As I said,”the voice continued in reply,physical sustenance is not all that human beings live for.
…Beauty and love and freedom and joy and meaning and vision and growth are important to human existence.
…So much so, life is not life to a human being without those things.
...Indeed, a fully fed, clothed, and housed human being may take their life, if those things are missing.”
“Where do you fit into this grand scheme of things?” asked the Oak seed.
To which the voice replied,“When I am planted in a human heart, they are inspired to do great things.
...It doesn’t matter whether they are...
Adult
Child
Woman
Man
Rich
Poor
From a developed country
Underdeveloped country
Able
Differently able
Homosexual
Heterosexual
Bisexual
Sick
Healthy
Christian
Hindu
Muslim
Buddhist
Atheist
Faithful
Faithless
Free
In prison
Winner
Loser
Addict
Sober
...When I am planted in their hearts, they become pure potential.
...And that pure potential can enable them to achieve anything they set their hearts on achieving.
...In fact, without me being planted in their hearts, nothing can be achieved.
...No iphone can be born.
...No Tesla can be born.
...No Mona Lisa can be born.
...It is essential that I first be planted in a human’s heart, for any of those things to happen.
At this, all the other seeds, including the Oak seed, grew silent.
They understood their very existence depended on the Seed of Greatness being planted in a human heart.

Sunday, August 11, 2019

What are the best ways to make money working from home?


Here are some resources to explore and get you up and running - from home, while you are travelling, anywhere. Some of them are work from home (wfh), some are side hustles, some are part time - something for everybody:

FlexJobs links you to work from home and flex jobs which their job specialists have checked out and made sure are legitimate. Note, though they do not get you jobs, they publish information of “genuine non-scam jobs”, as soon as those jobs become available. You pay a weekly, monthly, or annual subscription for access to their job bank.
Jobs are posted and you can bid for them. There are many kinds of jobs, including technical jobs - all freelance, yay.
A website for doctors, nurses, cpas, lawyers, mechanics, and more, to get paid for answering questions. Worth checking out to keep your professional skills sharp and get paid for doing that, before and after retirement, and if you are unemployed, or under-employed.
Fiverr provides a platform for freelancers to offer services to customers worldwide, including customers like Facebook, Google, Paypal, and Intuit.
Toptal says it accepts only the best freelancers with years of proven experience. You have to be in the top 3%. Hence the name. A great way to prove your chops.
There are also other companies which focus on specific skills.
Fancy Hands specializes in providing freelance work for Virtual Assistants - and those businesses who need them.
Feastly is a global marketplace for chefs to showcase and host dinners, pop-ups, and culinary experiences. It connects hungry eaters with passionate cooks, offering authentic meals prepared and served in a cook's home.
Handy is an online marketplace for residential cleaning, installation, and other home services.
Rover operates an online marketplace for people to buy and sell pet care services including pet sitting, dog boarding, and dog walking.
Connects law firms to experienced and vetted Legal Secretaries, Paralegals and Virtual Assistants with experience in the legal field.

Upcounsel:
Connects companies to experienced attorneys.
Gets you connected with home owners who need help with things like furniture assembly, mounting and installation, handyman work, etc.

Love the outdoors? Get a seasonal job in your favorite destinations.  What better way to enjoy a destination for free?  Take a look at these seasonal Yosemite jobs.  What do you think?
And there’s even more…
CatalantAmazonFlex,Wonolo…the list goes on and on.
Bookmark this post for when you are ready to take the plunge.
Put your feet up on your sofa.
And click, click, click….till you find a work from home job, part time job, or side hustle that’s right for you.
Good luck!

Sunday, August 4, 2019

How do you feel when you expect to triumph, but fail to get the desired results?

It comes as a surprise, even a shock.
You believe you have done a good job, maybe even an excellent job.
You may have busted your chops.
Gone the extra mile.
Put some extra special touches.
Stretched yourself.
To no good effect.
Your efforts failed to get the desired response.
Worse, they got a negative response.
If it’s an exam, test, or assignment, you got a grade or score lower than what you assumed you would get.
Maybe even way lower than what you assumed you would get.
Take heart.
This happens.
Value is subjective.
What you think is fine or great or perfect, may not be fine or great or perfect by someone else's standards.
The sooner you learn this economic lesson (and life lesson), the better.
Value is subjective.
What I mean by that, is your audience decides whether your ability, or your performance, or your experience, or what you have to offer is mediocre, good, or great.
A boss, a professor, or someone who is used to high standards, or works in a high standards environment, may be hard to please.
A boss, a professor, or someone who is used to more reasonable standards, or works in an environment of modest standards, may be easy to please.
So there are plus and minus sides to variations in quality.
Just as some of the “excellent” things you do will sometimes fail to make an impact, some of the very “ordinary” things you do, might have a surprisingly good impact.
It just depends on the audience, and the environment. And also the factors impacting the audience at that particular time.
So when disappointment happens, just say to yourself, “Oh well. It was a tougher audience and environment than I expected. You can’t please everybody. And you can’t expect surefire results all the time. I know I gave it my best shot. It just didn't work in this particular scenario.”
One last word.
When you fail to make an impact, get curious.
Failure to make an impact should always stir your curiosity.
“Why did my efforts fail to get the desired results?”
Search for this answer.
It may lead to a sudden insight that will stop you in your tracks.
Don't you love it when that happens!