Sunday, October 30, 2022

Two People


Two people with different ideas...

One wants to look beautiful.

One wants to create beauty.

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Two people with different ideas...

One wants to look good.

One wants to do good.

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Two people with different ideas...

One wants to love more people.

One wants people to love them more.

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Two people with different ideas...

One wants everyone to be like them.

One wants to like everyone, even those who are different.

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Two people with different ideas...

One wants to win over everyone else.

One wants everyone to win.

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Two people with different ideas…

One wants to have more and more and more.

One wants to give more and more and more.

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Two people with different ideas...

One wants everyone to listen to them.

One wants to listen to everyone.

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Two people.

One wants to believe certain things.

One wants to believe other certain things.

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Two people...

One is worried life is passing them by.

One is content to watch life pass by.

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Two people.

It’s always been that way.

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Since Adam and Eve

Since Cain and Abel

Since the beginning of human time.

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Husband and wife

Parent and child

Brother and sister

Sister and sister

Brother and brother

Boss and employee

Friend and friend.

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Two people.

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So when we come across each other,

Should we fight?

Or should we shake hands, rub elbows, and say to each other:

Let's respect each other's differences in ideas, thoughts, and desires.

And let's continue to build on common ground.

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That's the thought I would like to leave you with today.

Sunday, October 23, 2022

Words, Words, Words


Words, words, words

Words that are set to a tune

Words which send us to the moon

Words, words, words.

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Words, words, words

Words which take us up, and words which take us down

Words which make us smile, and words which make us frown

Words, words, words.

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Words, words, words

Words so important, they stick in our head

Words so worrying, they make us toss and turn in bed

Words, words, words.

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Words, words, words

Words so inspiring, they make us brave, confident, and bold

Words so despairing, they make us dispirited, and leave us cold

Words, words, words.

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Words, words, words

Words so provoking and threatening,  they make us anxious, or want to fight

Words so calming and reassuring, they make us sleep well at night

Words, words, words.

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Words, words, words

Words so vibrant, they draw people towards us, and attract

Words so turning off, they repel people from us, and detract.

Words, words, words.

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Words, words, words

Words used to do happy things, such as say "hello" and "so good to see you"

Words used to do tough things, such as say goodbye and "I miss you"

Words, words, words.

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Mindful words

Guiding words

Kind words

Gentle words

Encouraging words

Calming words

Loving words

Complimenting words

There are so many kinds of words we should use more of.

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Thoughtless words

Seductive words

Mean words

Harsh words

Criticizing words

Threatening words

Uncaring words

Insulting words

There are so many kinds of words we should use less of.

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Dear reader, where do you look for the words to guide you?

Who, or what do you look to, for words to inspire you?

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Choose wisely, my dear friend.

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The quality of your thoughts and actions

Your relationships, and your life satisfaction

Starts with the words you think in.

And the words you say.

And the words you act upon.

Choose wisely, my dear friend.

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Choose your words!

Sunday, October 16, 2022

Imagine It First


You can't become a teacher, a hair stylist, a doctor, or a .... (insert career)

Without imagining it first.

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So start imagining

Imagine it, imagine it

Keep imagining it.

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You can't be more independent, get on your feet, become self-supporting, be financially stable, or be ….(insert the words for an important personal goal)

Without imagining it first.

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So start imagining

Imagine it, imagine it

Keep imagining it.

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You can't make a relationship personal, meaningful, authentic, or.....(insert the word for what you want your relationship to be)

Without imagining it first.

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So start imagining

Imagine it, imagine it

Keep imagining it.

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You can’t achieve a health goal - weight loss, better blood sugar control, a better physique, a better….(insert the word for the health goal you want to achieve)

Without imagining it first.

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So start imagining

Imagine it, imagine it

Keep imagining it.

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You can’t become more vibrant, more energetic, more courageous, or more....(insert the word for what you want to be)

Without imagining it first.

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So start imagining it

Imagine it, imagine it

Keep imagining it.

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You can't live a life that's filled with love, peace, joy, gratitude, or a life filled with........(insert the word for what you want your life to be)

Without imagining it first.

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So start imagining it

Imagine it, imagine it

Keep imagining it.

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Start imagining it

Imagine it, imagine it

Keep imagining it, dear reader.

Monday, October 10, 2022

Stay On The Safe Path




Stay on the safe path

The safe path is where there is ambition without greed

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Stay on the safe path

 

The safe path is where there is eating and drinking without excess

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Stay on the safe path

 

The safe path is where there is work and there is rest

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Stay on the safe path

The safe path is where there is concern without paranoia

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Stay on the safe path

 

The safe path is where there is passion without obsession

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Stay on the safe path

 

The safe path is where there is optimism without over confidence

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Stay on the safe path

 

The safe path is where there is tradition with tolerance

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Stay on the safe path

 

The safe path is where there is trust with verification

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Stay on the safe path

 

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Stay on the safe path, my friend,


Stay on the safe path!

Sunday, October 2, 2022

It Seems Years Away


It seems years away

When with Gina and Karen, James, Anil, Leena and Sheelu, the Marleys, and the Alfords, we used to play

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Performing at Catholic Club on Talent Show Day

David singing Puff the Magic Dragon, me singing Please Thank You and Sorry, the Bartleys stealing the show anyway

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Going to St. Patricks for mass every Sunday

To listen to and participate in the liturgy, to have communion, to kneel, and to pray

And then after to Koshys to have dosas

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Going to school in a cycle rickshaw with Mummy every day

And when we were old enough, pedaling there on our bikes, Shabana riding pillion most days

With our school bags, our packed lunch, our tuck money to buy polly mango

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Getting chicken pox, measles, and mumps, and having to stay home from school for many days

Having to find inventive ways not to get bored, and to pass the time away

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Listening to Radio Ceylon every day

Learning American pop songs, which everyone would be surprised we knew, after we came to  the U.S.A

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Waking up to the house being completely flooded after a spell of rainy nights and days

Rolling up our pants to get a massive cleanup under way

David taking a joyful dip in the water, before it evaporated, rolled, or seeped away.

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Getting our first pet dog, and then our second pet dog

And the big hunt we would have to do, when those pet dogs ran off and lost their way

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Going to the 3-day Sacred Hearts Fair to go on rides, to eat, and to play

With 10 rupees in our pockets to spend each day

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Getting our first guitar, and being taught by our friend Janet to play

Learning songs like House of the Rising Sun, and Hava Na Gila, which remained mainstays

And creating my own compositions such as The Tooter Who Tooted the Flute, the words and the tune of which, have lasted in my head till today

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Friends pouring into our house to play carroms, and pass the hours away

Hanging out just to talk and laugh, sometimes the whole day

Many lingering long after the sun had set, to go their own ways

A few of us walking up Brigade Road (Brigs) to have pani-puri before calling it a day

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Going to St. Joseph's Evening College for my P.U.C. with Lyla every day

Having one by two coffees with Virgie

And coming home at  9 p.m. every day

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Getting my first copywriting job

Meeting Anita and Jacky

And arguing about ouija boards and witchcraft and magic all day

It seems years away

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It seems years away

When going to Knock Out Disco was the highlight of our days

And winning second prize in the annual disco contest caused so many hurrays

Not just for me and Zubin, but for family and friends, who watched us participate

It seems years away

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It seems years away

Both the Bangalore and the Chennai days

Creating advertising campaigns, memories, and life-long friendships at MAA, Contract, HTA

And then at Purple Patch - my entrepreneurial foray

Egmore, Shreekant, playing Pictionary on the weekends with Chetan, Malini, Asma, Raj till the break of day

It seems years away

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Life brought me to the U.S.A.

Where my life was so different from my pre-America days

Monsoons, pani-puri, Brigade Road, all those friends, all those escapades

Part of a different time

Part of those wonderful and colorful India days

It seems years away

And yet it seems, 

yet it seems...

like it was just the other day!