Taken from the Persimmon Pinterest Board |
Persimmon Bread
Take 3½ cups sifted flour1½ teaspoons salt
2 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon ground nutmeg
2 to 2½ cups sugar
1 cup melted unsalted butter and cooled to room temperature
4 large eggs, at room temperature, lightly beaten
2/3 cup Cognac, bourbon or whiskey
2 cups persimmon puree (from about 4 squishy-soft Hachiya persimmons)
2 cups walnuts or pecans, toasted and chopped
2 cups raisins, or diced dried fruits (such as apricots, cranberries, or dates)
Step 1: Butter 2 loaf pans. Line the bottoms with a piece of parchment paper or dust with flour and tap out any excess.
Step 2: Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
Step 3: Sift the first 5 dry ingredients in a large mixing bowl.
Step 4: Make a well in the center then stir in the butter, eggs, liquor, persimmon puree then the nuts and raisins.
Step 5: Bake 1 hour or until toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean.
Step 6: Serve with a scoop of good old fashioned
friendship.
The
United States of Friendship - Part 1 -
Krysia
I met
Krysia when I was new in America.
Krysia and
Teresa were my classmates at Goodwill’s Institute of Career Development.
Krysia was
from Poland and Teresa was from the Philipines.
To me
anything or anyone new or from far away was exotic.
So Krysia
and Teresa were both exotic to me.
As exotic
as persimmons, broccoli, asparagus and artichoke.
The only
thing I knew about Poland before I met Krysia was the name Lech Walesa.
When
Krysia told me she was from Poland, I probably said “Oh - Lech Walesa” to her.
(You know how it is when you are
younger. You think you have to show off about anything you know)
I don’t
remember if Krysia said “Oh Rajneesh” back to me.
Or “Oh - Sai
Baba”.
Or “Oh - Kama
Sutra”.
Krysia and
Teresa had both been in America longer than I had.
So they
took me under their wing.
I learned
where they shopped, where they ate. (Rites of passage for Sisterhood).
I went to
my first Ihop breakfast with them.
I went to
my first Mary Kay party with them.
(A Mary Kay, Tupperware, Avon or Amway
party is an initiation rite for every new American immigrant).
And they
listened to my woes.
As we
wolfed down our home-made sandwiches at the cafeteria, the sandwich sticking to
the roof of my mouth because the bread was too soft and had become one with the
cheese, I would go - “I have such a strong advertising copy background – why can’t
these San Francisco ad agencies give me a break?” Yackety. Yack Yack.
“Did you
know in India, I owned my own business, my own creative shop?” Yackety. Yack.
Yack.
Meanwhile,
the list of things I could not do,
and which were essential to survival in
America, was long.
I could
not drive.
I did not
know Microsoft Word, Excel or Powerpoint.
I had poor
dress sense (which you could get away with in a creative career and nowhere else).
And I had poor
social skills.
I
regularly interrupted people while they were talking.
“Excuse
me. Excuse me”, I would say.
2 years later, I learned it was the fastest
way to make some people extremely angry.
I interrupted
my boss when he was talking to his boss and he blew up.
Lost it.
Let me
have it.
Complete
with 4 letter expletives and thumping his fists on my desk.
But that’s
a story for another time.
With the
Goodby, Berlin and Silversteins, the Publicis & Hal Riney Incs, the CKS
Partners, the Y&Rs, the Black Rockets, the Draftfcbs all ignoring me, I was
glad for the friendship, encouragement and support I got from Krysia and Teresa.
When we got
done with the Institute of Career Development, Krysia and me stayed in touch.
We would meet for coffee.
For sales.
For movies.
For walks.
For
birthdays.
For the
weekly Wednesday dinner I held at my apartment where my hit or miss cooking was
mostly “miss”.
I soon twigged
out my guests were there for the camaraderie rather than the food.
And camaraderie
there was!
On one
occasion, we were laughing so raucously, there was a knock on the door.
It was Apartment
Security.
They looked over my shoulder for the drunken revelers.
All they
saw were 5 demurely dressed women with cups of tea.
“Can you
keep it down?” they said, “people are complaining.”
We
guffawed.
I taught Krysia
to make Pachadi.
She
invited me over for Barszcz.
We got to
know each other’s families.
I even met
her sister and the three of us went to Winchester Mystery House together.
Krysia
would watch Tanita grow.
And our
friendship would keep growing.
It was
always an amazing thing to receive a gift from Krysia – because you knew it
would be a very personalized gift, or something really thoughtful.
She would
observe all the things my house (or my life lacked) and make a gift of just those
things to me.
Thus one
birthday, I received this splendid cutting knife from her.
Another
birthday she had Alfred entertain Tanita and my Mum at my apartment, while she took me to a birthday
dinner at Todai, because she decided what I needed most of all was a break.
It only
kind of worked out.
About half
an hour into dinner – we see Tanita’s nose pressed up against the
window of Todai looking at us, Alfred and my mum just behind her.
Krysia’s
best gift to me is the gift of perfect honesty.
When I ask
her a question, she tells me like it is.
She tells me what I should hear and need to hear, not what I want
to hear.
The years
have gone by fast.
Tanita is
going to be 18.
Krysia’s
son has already turned 10.
Which
brings me to Persimmon Bread.
In recent
years, as we have gotten busy with our separate lives, Krysia and I have not
been able to meet as much as we would like to.
But every
time we do, we talk and talk, and the hours go by like minutes.
I have, of
course, learned to drive and do all those things I couldn’t do when I first
came to America.
But
America is not just the Land of Opportunity.
It’s also the
Land of Continual Learning.
And both
Krysia and me are currently busy with learning new things.
I am
learning to make a go of my new career as a Contract Commissions Administrative
and Implementation Consultant.
And Krysia
is busy pursuing a new mission of her own too.
Meanwhile,
visiting Krysia always turns up new delights.
On my last
visit, I got to taste her amazing Persimmon Bread.
Two visits
ago, I accompanied her to a Zumba class.
Thanks
Krysia for your friendship.
I end this
post by raising my, er, cup of tea to you and saying “thanks for the many many
years of friendship.
Here’s to
many many more.
One more thing....
I have never asked you the question: Am I a koleżanka or a przyjaciel to you? I am going to assume przyjaciel. Hope we
remain przyjaciels
forever!”
Dear reader - thanks for reading. Hope
you enjoyed this post. Do come back next
week for the second installment of The United States of Friendship.…..M, a Pearl Seeker like you.
5 comments:
Interesting reading, Minoo! You have a loyal friend!
Happy Eater Minoo!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=yWGDeBFLsf8
Happy Eater is right.....I do a lot of eating:)
Thanks Ajay.....yes, some friends are forever.....like you:)
Lol...
Sorry for the typographical error Minoo
I understand you had a happy Easter!
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