Time can move on and leave us behind.
No matter what our business, field, line of work, or hobby, we need to
stay abreast of the latest trends, skills, statistics (and technologies), so time does
not leave us behind.
We should review our situation frequently, and we should identify improvements
and changes we could make.
It will be tempting for us to wait for things to fall in our lap, “I am so comfortable
where I am” or “I will let the cards fall where they may”.
But “Comfortable where I am” is fine, only until it is not.
We may wake up and find out time has left us behind.
The longer we stay in one-track thinking and acting modes, the higher
the risk.
Before I became a consultant, I was employed at one company for 5
years.
The learning curve was steep when I joined. But after 2 years at the
company, I knew all the ins and outs of the job, and my work became routine and
comfortable.
So I chugged along at my job for another 3 years. Besides being familiar with the work, there
was the added attraction that my boss allowed me to work from home 3 days a
week, and in the afternoons on the other 2 days of the week as well, so I was pretty much working from home. Who could
ask for more? It was a happy place to be in.
That is, until it was not. When the economy took a nose dive,
a new manager was brought in over my manager.
That was when the trouble in paradise began.
I found myself fighting. Fighting to hold on to my telecommuting; fighting
to justify the hours I spent on my work; fighting to stave off being made to take on work unrelated
to commissions, such as MDF and revenue recons.
One fine day, I quit – I had an emergency cushion to
support myself, but little else.
I gave up my job in a depressed economy with sky-high unemployment
rates.
I did not know if I would ever be able to find my footing again.
Looking back, it was one of the best decisions of my life.
I discovered there’s nothing like a little bit of self-induced life
stress to caffeinate the brain.
By quitting, my brain moved from auto-pilot to pilot.
To use a riding analogy – when a horse is new, our brain is in high
alert, and we have to focus.
After a while, we get used to the horse, and riding the horse becomes
second-nature for us.
The longer we ride the same horse, the more comfortable we get, and
the more resistant we are to the idea of riding a new horse.
To us, a new horse carries the risk of being wild, and untamed, and
problematic.
A new horse also carries the risk of us falling flat on our face.
Some of us secretly fear we may not be as smart, clever, or successful
at riding, as we appear to be.
We secretly wonder if we just got lucky - getting a good horse to
ride, and being able to ride it all this time.
This second-guessing repeatedly plays in the back of our mind.
Along with that, there’s the associated fear, if something ever happens
to the horse we are riding, we may never be able to find another horse to ride.
As we advance in life, the fear of not being able to find another
horse to ride, becomes bigger and bigger.
Well, when I walked out of my full-time job in 2010, I was forced to deal
with this fear head-on.
I had an emergency cushion, but nothing else to fall back on.
Would I be able to find a horse to ride again, and would I be able to have
staying power on that horse? Both of these were unknowns.
Happily, the answer turned out to be yes.
What was my secret?
I was willing to look at different stables, and learn to ride new
horses – that was my secret.
I decided to learn Xactly.
It was an unusual decision.
In my field, every Commissions Analyst learns Xactly (or Varicent or
Callidus) by being sponsored by their employers for training.
But I decided to take the bull by the horns, and to do the training on
my own dime, and on my own time, ahead of getting a job in a company that uses
Xactly for their commissions.
I called the Xactly Trainer and said, “I am unemployed, and cannot get
a job because I do not know Xactly. Can
I do the Admin course? I will pay from my own pocket.”
And so, thanks to Sonia, the Xactly trainer, who convinced Xactly to
bend the rules to accommodate my request, I did the Xactly Admin course.
A few months later, Sonia put me on to an implementations company.
Again, I had a choice to make.
Wait to get a full-time Commissions Analyst job with benefits, or do
contract work for this implementation and testing company, and get Xactly
implementations exposure.
There was the risk of falling on my face, but I chose to ride this new
horse.
I earned less than an unemployment check in the next 14 months, but I
learned to ride a new horse, and it has benefited me ever since.
What new horses are you afraid to ride?
If you are afraid to ride these new horses, think back on all the
things which made you uncomfortable once, but which you are relaxed about doing
now.
When things are unfamiliar, we make a bigger deal of them than they
are.
Because of growing up without a phone, and getting into a career where
I had to spend my time writing advertising copy, I used to be uncomfortable
about talking on the telephone, even scared to.
If I had the choice, I always wrote someone, rather than call them.
Now since I have gotten over this fear of talking on the phone, I
cannot believe this scenario once actually happened in one of my jobs:
Scenario:
I was waiting on some information from the sales reps, which I needed to
process commissions.
In spite of sending repeated emails to the sales reps, requesting the
information, some of them had not responded.
When my manager asked me where I was on that work, I complained I hadn’t
been able to finish it, because some of the reps had not responded to my email.
I still remember how he irritably turned to me and said: “Minoo, please get on the phone and ask them
for the information. You shouldn’t have
waited this long.”
As a Commissions Consultant, going from company to company, I have to learn
to ride new horses every few months.
At one company, instant messaging was the new horse.
Before I contracted at that company, I did not like instant messaging. But the manager at the company had a fondness
for instant messaging. It was her preferred method for communicating with her
team. Once when she instant messaged me, and I didn't respond, she came by my
desk a little later, and irritably inquired (yes we can provoke irritation by
not being willing to ride some horses), why I had not responded to her instant
message. I quickly adapted to instant messaging after that day.
At another assignment, the horse I had to learn to ride was converting
text information into tabular information.
I was writing an FRD for a Varicent implementation, and, accustomed to
my copywriting ways, I described all the plan calcs in long paragraphs. The implementations architect I was writing
the FRD for asked me to convert all the paragraphs to tables. It was a challenge, but I was grateful for
the challenge after I finished the FRD. It turned out to
be the best FRD I have written till date, and it is because of those tables.
Thanks to working for different implementation companies, I learned to
ride all of the following horses –Kick-off documents, FRDs, DMS documents,
Prototypes, Solution Process Documents and User Operating Guides. I learned to
write test scenarios and conduct UAT. And I learned all the tools to make
presentations remotely. My post Are you a Virtuoloso? was inspired by some of
the things that became second-nature for me.
And now I have a confession to make. I was a Luddite when it came to
smart phones. I resisted owning a smart
phone for as long as I could. Then when
T Mobile acquired Metro PCS, my carrier, I was informed by Metro PCS I would
need to upgrade my phone to a 4G phone and to go to one of their stores as soon
as possible. I was slow in acting on this, and by the time I got around to it,
only the smallest flip phones were available for me to upgrade to; I knew that
wouldn’t work for me, because I communicated with several people, most
importantly Tanita, via texting; so I took the plunge and opted for a smart
phone (the cheapest smart phone available).
Am I glad I did?
Not only, do I use Google voice search and Google maps on my new phone
all the time, but in my current assignment, to log onto VPN, we had to download
a smart phone app in order to enter a mobile token. A year ago, I didn’t have a smart phone, so
this wouldn’t have been possible.
What are all the areas in which we could benefit from being up to
date?
Not all of them are connected with our jobs and businesses.
In our personal lives too, there are many areas in which it would
benefit us to stay up to date.
Take taxes, for instance.
The tax rules change every year.
Tax credits change, 401K and IRA contribution limits change, also our
circumstances change. We need to keep
abreast of the changes.
Will we earn any 1099 income this year?
If we are on top of things, we will know we have to pay advance taxes
to the IRS on that.
Did we take money from our 401K? We will have to pay a 20% penalty, plus
tax at our normal tax rate on the amount we withdrew.
Did our 19 year old child file her own taxes, and claim herself on her
taxes? We can't claim her too.
These are just examples.
In general, we should stay up to date on all the rules and laws that
are applicable to our lives and circumstances.
Another area in which we should try to stay up to date is in health
matters.
This is even more so, if we have a condition such as pre-diabetes,
diabetes, blood pressure, or anything else.
We may be surprised by what we discover.
My eyes have been opened so much in the last six months, thanks to medical
and health professionals, practitioners and writers, such as Dr. Ronesh Sinha,
Dr. Jason Fung, Martin Berkham, Marty Kendall, Dr James Watson, and even the
much-dismissed and much-maligned Dr. Mercola.
Here is just a sprinkling of what I learned:
o When you cross 50, you are more likely
to have too much iron than too little iron
o You can be overweight and deficient in
Vitamin D, especially Vitamin D3
o You can be overweight and deficient in
folate and B vitamins.
o You can improve your insulin resistance
more by ‘not eating breakfast’ than by ‘eating breakfast’
o The insulogenic index is more important
than the glycemic index
o A little extra fat is less harmful to
someone with insulin resistance, than a little extra carbohydrate.
So open your eyes, and don't be afraid of finding new horses to ride.
As always, thanks for reading and have
a great day and week…..M…..a Pearl Seeker like you. Thanks to Ajay for his compliments on my last
post, and thanks to the rest of you for your likes, pins and shares. Much
appreciated.
Links to the health information mentioned in this post. I hope you will check them out:
Dr. Ronesh Sinha – on carb trafficking, body fat storage and insulin resistance
Dr. Jason Fung - if there's one video you should watch on Intermittent Fasting, this is it.
Martin Berkhan - Lean Gains - a body-builder and trainer who has been doing and writing about Intermittent Fasting since 2007
Marty Kendall - lots of great info on the Insulogenic Index, and other topics relevant to diabetes
James Watson - writes on anti-aging topics such as Alzheimers
Dr. Mercola - writes on lots of health topics including aging.
1 comment:
Well said, Minoo...the future truly belongs to those who dare, as you've so aptly demonstrated in your life! What stands out is your quick adaptability to change and your rapid absorption of new concepts!And thanks for the useful and well researched health tips!
Ajay
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