How much will it take to make you happy? Hint: the lower the
number, the better.
Hacking Money ….
Several years ago, I began
tracking my expenses.
I started by creating
an Excel spreadsheet.
In my spreadsheet, I
had the months going across the top row of the spreadsheet.
And in the first
column of the spreadsheet, I had different expense categories going down.
In some categories, I
had sub categories.
For example, the car
category had gas, insurance, maintenance, AAA, repairs, parking.
The medical expenses
category had premiums, copays, lab work, medicines, supplements, glasses,
dental visits.
The cleaning products
category had cleaning products, toilet rolls and tissues, paper towels, laundry
detergent, fabric softener, and laundry machine operating cost.
I did not have a car
payment.
Otherwise I would have
created a sub category for that on my spreadsheet. and entered my monthly car
payment as well.
After I created my
Expenses spreadsheet, I started entering every expense in my spreadsheet.
I did this faithfully.
Every time I had an expense,
it went into the spreadsheet.
I put my gas expenses into
the gas category.
I put my car repair
expenses into the car repairs category.
I put my oil change
expenses into an oil change category.
Some expenses were
four times a year expenses – like oil changes.
Some expenses were
twice a year expenses such as car insurance.
Some expenses were
unpredictable, like a sudden repair.
My total expenses (all categories) thus
varied from month to month.
But I knew at the end
of the year, I would know my average monthly expense and my total annual expense.
Having created the
spreadsheet, I was diligent about making the entries.
Not a single expense
was left out of the spreadsheet.
If I gave a dollar to
a homeless person, into the spreadsheet it went.
If I bought a few
things from Dollar Tree, I entered them in my spreadsheet, each item in its
correct category.
If something didn’t
fit into any existing spreadsheet category, I created a new category, or sub
category for it.
As I went along, I
realized I had to create a new sub category for haircuts, a new sub category
for public transportation, a new subcategory for library fines, a new sub
category for gifts, and a new sub category for donations, and so on.
In this way, every
expense of mine during that year went into my spreadsheet.
By the end of that
year, I had a clear understanding.
My biggest expenses
were housing (which was rent) and car.
I was already living
in a very modest apartment.
Further, space and
privacy were important to me.
If it came to it, I knew
I would have to rent a smaller space for me and my daughter.
Or take in a roommate,
to share expenses with.
But I saved like
anything to avoid that.
Because I really liked the
privacy we enjoyed being on our own.
Likewise, I knew I
couldn’t do anything about my car expenses.
I had a cheap Korean-made
used economy car, and an ex-Hertz rental at that.
Sure I could cut
corners by not having an AAA membership, or by buying bare bones auto insurance.
But I decided I wanted
the extra peace of mind.
My spreadsheet made me
think about every expense, and where I could possibly cut any corners.
Could I turn off
lights, use the air-conditioner and heaters more sparingly, to bring down my
PG&E bill?
Ultimately, I decided
the comfort of a cool room in summer, and a warm room in winter, was money well
spent.
So finally, it was in
the area of disposable income expenses, that I chose where to be frugal, and
where not.
Since I liked going
out with friends, I didn’t cut corners on that.
But I cut corners on clothes,
bedding, furniture, crockery and cutlery, appliances, haircuts, entertainment,
and more.
Those who visited me
would have seen my apartment was simple, and much of my furniture was worn.
I did have some one
and done disposable income expenses that year.
I bought a TV.
And I also bought a
router, a Roku device and a Chromecast.
Other than those
expenses, I didn’t make any appliance purchases.
I saved as much of my
income as I could.
I knew savings would
be my ticket to deal with times of unemployment, as well as retirement.
Looking at that spreadsheet
at the end of that year, I felt a great sense of calm.
I knew if I was able
to maintain that level of expense going forward, I would have nothing to worry
about.
The important thing
was for me not to get self-indulgent.
Steer clear of flashy
cars.
Steer clear of expensive
clothes, haircuts, beauty treatments, entertainments and vacations.
I would be content
with walking, reading, enjoying what the computer and internet could bring me,
and getting together with a friend every now and then to go hiking, or have
dinner, or take in a movie.
So I continued life
just as it was.
I continued to stay in
my rented apartment, which, if it was not gated, and did not have amenities like
inside washer/dryers and heated pools, offered me good value for money in terms
of safety and space.
My life in America is
what most people would call a bare bones simple life.
But I don’t feel it
lacks anything.
And I have never
questioned my choices.
They are different
from everyone else’s.
But we are all
different, aren’t we?
Some of us just don’t
need much to make us happy.
Perhaps you are a person
like me.
Happy with covering just a few of life’s basics.
Nothing wrong with
that!
Making money can be a
soul-sucking experience.
With the life choices
we make, we can make it less so.
I certainly did.
1 comment:
Really instructive and illuminating, Minoo!
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