Sunday, November 23, 2025

What Makes Life Easier Apart From Money?


1. Good physical health.

This may take some hard work, depending on what health issues life throws at you.
2. Good mental health.

This may also take some work, depending on what mental health challenges life throws at you.

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Minoo Jha
 · 4y
What was your big life reality check?
Realizing I was successful outside, but miserable inside. In fact, as I was soon to discover, I was not just miserable, I was in the throes of a clinical depression. I survived and came out stronger. Here’s the story, as written about on my blog: If Life is So Good, Why Do I Feel So Sad? When Depression Hits! In my thirties, I suffered a depression. Here's what I learned from going through the experience and coming out stronger and happier the other side... Depression can strike even when times are good! By good, I mean really, really good. The year leading up to my depression was my best ever. A seasoned Advertising Copywriter, my creative consultancy (appropriately called Purple Patch) was thriving. Octopus-like, I had my tentacles in several different agencies and clients in Chennai. From O&M to Sistas BSB and Everest to Goldwire on the agency side. From Apollo Hospitals to Hill Country Resorts and Equifax to Strawberry Stripes on the client side. There was so much work, that in addition to the freelance copywriters and art directors I had on call, I was able to hire a bunch of my students from Loyola College where I was guest lecturing on Copywriting and put them on my payroll. I was out and about a lot in those days. I remember speaking at events like the USIS Career Fair. To make a long story short, there was no shortage of money, time, challenge or professional prestige. Yet it was right in the middle of all this, that my depression took hold. Depression can strike even when you are taking really good care of yourself! At the time of my depression, you may think I was leading an unhealthy lifestyle. Eating too much. Or too little. Sleeping too much. Or too little. Stressed out, perhaps? And not getting enough exercise. Perish the thought. I had successfully turned vegetarian 2 years prior. And I worked out for an hour every single day of the week I did aerobics with Kamlesh 3 times a week. And strength training at a gym the other 4 days of the week. Plus I was doing well enough to pay for a masseuse to come to my house and give me a one-hour massage every 2 weeks. Unfortunately, this healthy lifestyle wasn't able to protect me. Depression is quite arbitrary in that sense. Depression can strike even with a supportive partner by your side! I had married a man whom I had known for years and years. He really appealed to my feminist side. He cooked, he was self-sufficient. He did not have any double standards. And he was calm, good-natured and cheerful at all times. It should have amounted to a kind of insurance against depression. But it didn't. Depression won't make you any less able to function! This was both a boon and a curse. I probably generated the most income I have ever generated in my life during my depression. I was able to meet clients, make calls, attend meetings, supervise my team, get work done, pay my bills, deal with my bank and my tax consultant. I was quite unimpaired in terms of being able to carry out the activities of life. What no one knew was that there was no joy and I was dying inside. No one ever guessed because... Depression is easy to hide! Like any socialized adult, I had successfully learned to mask my feelings long before the depression struck. So when it did, I was able to keep it completely secret. In fact, the only people who knew about it were the people I chose to tell. Thank heavens I did decide to tell them. Were it not for that, I wonder how much more protracted my suffering would have been. Thanks to one of my confidants (and believe me, it was really hard to reveal to her that there was all this numbness and emptiness and crying below the successful exterior), I was able to figure out I was going through a depression and then find a therapist. Finally, depression can strike even if there's meaning in your life! You might be tempted to think that it was all the focus on money-making that did me in. But when you learn the facts, you'll see how that wasn't it either. My needs being simple, I was a donor and participant in several different causes around the time of my depression. I sponsored a lunch at an orphanage. I sponsored the purchase of toiletries for the residents of an old age home. I sponsored 2 Blood Banks for Bank of Baroda, Alwarpet which was my bank at the time. I was also on call to donate blood and still remember the hemophiliac mother-to-be who was about to deliver a baby that I was called upon to donate blood to. I was a loving, dutiful daughter and also regularly visited my family in Bangalore. And for one of my mom's birthdays, I flew down with a really special gift. I had printed 200 copies of her book of poetry, "A Twig In a Torrent" in hardback. But you can't buy immunity from a depression in any currency, including soul currency. Is this tale depressing you? Don't let it... The good news is when a depression ends - it really ends. At the time I was depressed, I thought I may never smile again. But I got myself into therapy. And agreed to the treatment prescribed. In spite of not having much faith or respect for it. It included Psychotherapy. An Anti-depressant. A pill to sleep. B-Complex injections. And instructions to revisit all the decisions I had made in my life. I still remember this oft-repeated sentence of the therapist: - "Believe me, in a few years, you are going to be grateful for this depression. It is going to make you make a happier, more fulfilled person." She was right. Though there were casualties - my marriage, my copywriting career, my business, my vegetarianism, and my life in India were all impacted, I have lived more meaningfully and consciously with every passing year since. And I have never looked back! It took me great courage to write this post. But I decided to do it anyway. Because I want people to know that there is a rainbow at the end of the depression cloud. A rainbow with beautiful colors. Which only a person who has had a depression and comes out of it is able to perceive. If you suspect you are suffering from a depression...the important thing is to talk about it to somebody. To seek help. And to put one foot in front of the other until you are over it. Don't over analyze the gene theory, the childhood trauma theory, or other causative factors - focus on getting well with medicine and psychotherapy. May you Live Well and Thrive!

3. Good habits — such as discipline, hard work, self-control, and freedom from bad habits — such as gambling, overeating, drinking too much, doing drugs, etc.

Both developing good habits, and giving up bad habits may take some work.

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Minoo Jha
 · 6y
Why are good habits so hard to create?
Hi, You asked, Are good habits difficult to develop? I have written a post about this before on my blog. Reprinting it here because it is relevant. The 15 Laws of Habits 1.It's easier to start a new habit than to give up an old habit. You can see all the habits people find hard to give up – smoking, drinking, doing drugs, playing video games, criticizing. Knowing that, you should steer clear of them. And if you are already into any of them, get out as fast as you can. 2.The company you keep, the places you hang out at, and where you source your information and advice from is key to picking up habits. Spend time at bars, you are likely to drink, spend time with video game players, you are likely to play video games a lot. Join a book club or a walking group, and you will read books and walk more. Learn to discern. 3.To develop a new habit, you have to take the first step. If you’ve never been to a gym, you have to sign up and go. 4.There are alternatives to many habits. For example, therapy, exercise, meditation, yoga and sleep can be an alternative to prescription medicine for stress and insomnia. Low carb diets, intermittent fasting and weight loss programs can be an alternative to metformin and glucophage for diabetes. 5.Alternatives that do not work when you first try them may well work when you try them later. I tried to meditate several times in my life starting from my 20s, but I succeeded later in life. 6.It is okay to be nervous about a new habit. Some new habits are more nerve-wracking than others. Driving is nerve-wracking in the beginning. Public speaking is nerve wracking in the beginning. Understand that many things which are nerve-wracking become less and less nerve wracking as you develop confidence and do it again and again. This was true for me with learning Excel when I switched from an advertising copy career to a commissions administration career. It was also true for me when I learned driving and I learned public speaking, just to name a few areas of my life which were nerve wracking. 7.Besides being nerve-wracking, everything is tough in the beginning. Remember how tough it was for you to learn to ride a bicycle. Or to learn to swim, or to skate, or to golf. What’s tough in the beginning, gets easier as you become habituated to it. 8.People ask me, “Minoo, how do you write and publish a blog post every week?” The answer is: I have been at it for 8 years and more than 450 posts. So I have gotten better and better at both coming up with ideas and writing. People also ask me, “Minoo, how come it is so easy for you to meditate?” The answer is: I have been meditating for the past 8 years. The more you do something, the better you get at it. Take a page out of my book. Better still, take a page out of your favorite athlete’s book – keep doing something, and you will get better and better and better and better and better at it. 9.There are tools to give up habits. If you have a spending problem, you can create an expense tracker and track all your expenses. If you have a hard time being on time, you can use the alarm on your phone, or set your clock back so you are always on time. If you have an addiction, you can join AA. If you have been unsuccessful in giving up a habit without tools, then there's no question about it - you need to use tools. Do not resist this or procrastinate on this. 10.A habit can be liberating. A regular exercise habit liberates you from gaining weight and being less healthy than you want to be. A reading habit liberates you from boredom and ignorance. A purposeful writing habit or community service habit can liberate you from the "now what" feeling that happens after you achieve any milestone. 11.Some habits you should take up just because they are character building. I have a friend who regularly cleans the bathrooms of the Buddhist temple she goes to. This is an example of a character-building habit. 12.It is easier to give up a bad habit if it is inconvenient for you to continue it. I once met a person who told me she used to smoke when she lived in India, but she gave it up soon after coming to America, because she did not like to have to go outside to smoke. If you want to give up a habit, make it inconvenient for you to continue it. For example, if you want to give up alcohol, live far from a liquor store, avoid social events where liquor is served, and avoid people who enable your addiction. Make it inconvenient. If you want to give up cakes and ice-cream and anything else that’s bad for you, don’t stock it at home and if you know it's going to be served at a party, eat before you go to the party. You will have an easier time of giving up an unhealthy eating habit this way. Do you know after I went low-carb, I stopped buying potatoes and rice and bread altogether. Take a leaf out of my book. 13.Repetition is the key determinant of success with new habits. You have to take the first step. Then you have to do it again. Then you have to do it again. Then you have to do it again. Then you have to do it again. People who excel at things often do so only after they have been at it for 10,000 hours. Repetition is essential and it is powerful and rewarding. 14.Good habits lead to great habits. The more you exercise, the more you can exercise. The further you can go. And the more challenging things you can attempt. In yoga - you may find yourself starting with the easy Lotus pose and eventually being able to do the difficult crane pose. The 2 mile walker becomes the 5 mile walker. The 5 mile walker becomes the 10 mile walker. The 10 mile walker becomes the 13.1 mile walker. The 13.1 mile walker becomes the 26.2 mile walker. 15.Finally, we become associated with our habits. Depending on when and how you know me, you will associate me with this blog, or with the Fiesta advertising campaign I created, or with wearing sweaters in the Chennai heat, or with wearing sunshades at night, or with drinking till I passed out, or with playing my own compositions on the guitar. For your information, of the above, this blog is the only habit which still stands. Hope this answer inspires you to give up any habits that are bad for you. And more importantly, to succeed in developing new habits to replace them, which are good for you.
4. Personality traits such as determination and motivation - to learn the things that may be essential to an easier life (learning to drive, for example - essential to an easier life in many countries).

It helps if you are a life-long learner, and you are willing to learn at any age and stage of life.

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Minoo Jha
 · 3y
How will an individual be a lifelong learner? Give an example.
By understanding it’s never too early or too late to begin something or do something. I can’t write enough about it, and in fact, I have written a series of posts on “never too early or too late” on my blog. Here’s an adapted version of one of them - The Element of Understanding It’s Never Too Early or Too Late To Begin Something Or Do Something - Part 2 We go through life making assumptions. One of the assumptions we make is that it’s too early or too late to do something. Most times, this is not true. Is it ever too early or too late to make amends? Is it ever too early or too late to say hello to someone we have not been in touch with? Is it ever too early or too late to start afresh? If we sit and think, it is never too early or too late to do most things. It is never too early or too late to share our thoughts with somebody. It’s never too early or too late to explore our creative side. It’s never too early or too late to start being less stressed. Being less stressed is a combination of taking good care of yourself, becoming a low maintenance person and finding your calm center. It’s never too early or too late to simplify your life. Simplifying your life may involve different things. Sometimes, simplifying your life may be as simple as changing your approach. When I changed from my Tiger Mom and Helicopter Mom approach to a more relaxed parenting approach, life with my teen became simpler and more enjoyable. I put frustration behind me. It’s never too early or too late to acknowledge a debt. In several posts, including My United States of Friendship series of posts, and posts such as Steve Jobs - a Personal Tribute, I have tried to acknowledge the people I am indebted to and am grateful to. It’s never too early or too late to celebrate the unique shared experiences that come from being part of a unique family and culture. It’s never too early or too late to celebrate a milestone. When I reached my 100th post, I went all out and wrote a five part series of posts to celebrate that milestone. What milestones are coming up in your life? It’s never too early or too late to tell your story. Each one of us has a unique story (or stories) shaped by our unique background and our unique experiences and our unique personality and our unique interests. It is fun to read other people’s stories. Speaking of escapades, it’s never too early or too late to learn to laugh at life. The more you are able to laugh at life, and especially at your own failures, foibles and mistakes, the more psychological health you will enjoy. I used to feel more low than high when I was younger. In fact, I even suffered a clinical depression. But I learned to laugh at life more and more as I got older, and I learned to laugh even more after I learned to meditate. Nowadays, I find everything and anything funny. Laughter is the best medicine. It's the best medicine I take anyway. What does having or not having a sense of humor say about us? Do personality traits matter? You know, it’s never too early or too late to learn about human psychology. If we do, we will learn what to say and what not to say to people, and what to do to make people change, even change ourselves. Often change is just a puzzle to be solved. It’s never too early or too late to start seeing all problems as puzzles and become a master solver. For that, you have to be a lifelong learner. You must be willing to learn to do new things and to learn about new things. I became a Commissions Analyst by learning everything from scratch, starting with Excel. To keep up with being an Analyst, I have had to learn Centive and Xactly and Varicent. Yes, whatever the field, we have to be lifelong learners. Learning something you never thought you could learn is very satisfying. Before I came to America, I did not know how to drive and I did not know how to cook. Learning those 2 things was extremely satisfying to me. In fact, they changed my life. Thanks to being able to drive, I can achieve much more in a day than I would have, had I not been able to drive. And being able to cook, enables me not just to understand what I am eating, but cooking is also an outlet for my creativity. I have regular ‘cooking epiphanies’, such as my avocado pani puri epiphany. More recently, I learned how to do my taxes myself. Until I learned to do my taxes, everything related to the IRS was Greek to me – filing status, W2s, W4s, allowances, withholdings, 1040As, standard vs itemized deductions - it was all Greek to me. After I learned to do my taxes, it all made sense, which is why I say to every person I meet - it is never too early or too late to understand how your taxes work. It is never too early or too late to learn something new about the world in which we live. The value of learning something new doesn’t have to be measured by its impact on the quality of our physical lives. Our intellectual horizons expand when we learn something new. And that is just as important. The fact is we are intellectual beings, as much as we are physical beings, or emotional beings, or spiritual beings. I enjoy learning something new about the world in which I live. Soon after I started my blog, I started getting a regular visitor to my blog from Estonia. I had never heard of Estonia (shame on you Minoo), but when I saw this reader from Estonia visit my blog week after week, I became curious about Estonia. So I googled Estonia, and discovered a whole lot of fascinating facts about the country. One of the facts I discovered about Estonia was about the Singing Revolution. One day I will write a post about The Singing Revolution of Estonia and publish it on my blog, because it is just as fascinating as Mahatma Gandhi’s non-violence movement. Since we are at the start of a brand new year, before I end this post, I would like to add that it’s never too early or too late to use the lessons you learned in 2021 to make at least one positive change in 2022. I hope this answer leads you to that one positive change. Yeah! Happy New You in 2022!
5. Persistence — to stick with something, in spite of challenges along the way, in spite of setbacks, failures, and obstacles, or limited success.

You should view challenges, setbacks, failures, and obstacles as puzzles to be solved.

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Minoo Jha
 · 6y
What should you expect from your life?
Hi, You asked, What are some things that are expected in life? Problems are to be expected in life. How you handle your problems is key to living a good life. Here’s my advice… See problems as puzzles to be solved. Don't see problems as something to ignore. Nor should you see problems as something to complain about, moan and groan about, or to throw money, emotional energy, angst and sleepless nights, fretting and fuming at. If you want to live a better life, start seeing all problems as puzzles to be solved, rather than monsters over which you have no control. Learn to ask questions. Learn to seek solutions. Learn to put on your thinking hat, and tackle the problem. Don't let it grow and become a bigger problem. You should do this, even if you find the problem embarrassing. Don't suffer in private, because you can't risk someone knowing you have a problem. Don't let the problem get worse and worse in secret. Don't let a small problem grow into a giant problem. Get help as soon as you can. Find out who can help you. Find out what steps you can take. Find out how others have overcome the problem. You can be too private for your own good. When I first got depressed, I decided to stay quiet about it. I didn't want to risk my image. Everyone thought I was a person who had it all. I didn't want to blow this image. I wanted keep my image intact. It was such that my image mattered more than the truth. My image mattered more than my suffering. My image mattered more than the reality of my life. The reality was I was not myself emotionally. I was waking up every morning and bursting into tears. But I didn't want anyone to know that. I couldn't bear the idea. All I cared about was “my image”. My image was that of a “successful advertising consultant who had it all - money, success, a happy marriage.” On the whisper circuit, I was rumored to be "the best paid advertising copywriter in the city". I desperately wanted to keep the image going. Even at the risk of becoming more and more of a basket case. I kept my depression secret for months. I hoped it would just vanish. It had mysteriously come on. I hoped it would just as mysteriously go away. Except…it didn't. I finally picked up the courage to speak up and tell someone. One that day, as usual I got up in the morning and burst into tears. But on this day, I called a friend and told her. I said, "……(her name), I don't know what is happening. Every morning I wake up and start crying." She said, "It's a clinical depression, Minoo. I had it some years ago". "I will give you the name and phone number of a psychiatrist," she added. I shuddered at the words "psychiatrist". There are some problems no one likes to admit to - a financial problem, an addiction problem, a hoarding problem, an embarrassing cosmetic problem, a weight problem, sexually related illnesses, a marital problem. A mental health problem is in that category. It is hard to admit to. But I was relieved after I spoke up. The very first person I talked to had been through what I was going through, and was able to point me in the direction of a solution. You know how my depression story turned out. I covered it in a post I wrote a few posts ago on my blog, and in my post If Life Is So Good, Why Do I Feel So Sad? I was successfully able to resolve it and get past it. How can anything be solved if you keep it under wraps? Whatever the problem, you have a better chance if you seek help and look for solutions. You should look at every problem in your life as a puzzle to be solved. By seeking answers and solutions, ideas will come to you, and you will discover things you can try. So here’s what you do when problems arise in your life… You would be wise not to ignore it. You would be wise not to minimize it. You would be wise not to let it whirl around and around in your head, without doing anything about it. Even if you are uncomfortable - you need to talk about it, and get some inputs and strategies. Find someone and share your problem with them. The worst that will happen is they will say they can't help – because they don't have any expertise or resources in that area. But they may point you to people and resources that can be of help to you. You may need professional help, like I did. So take out a piece of paper. First thing you should do is write down what your problem is. Then make a list of the things you can do about it. Make a list of people you can talk to, and other ways to get information. And after you have talked to people, and done your research, pick a solution and start putting it to work. If the first solution doesn't work, try another. If that doesn't work, try another. This is how, sooner or later, you will make strides towards resolving your problem. Even problems you have had for years and years. A friend of mine told me what inspired her to become so interested in, and inspired by, nutrition. She had eczema as a child. Her parents had taken her to doctor after doctor, and they had tried treatment after treatment. Nothing worked. When she was in her early twenties, she decided to radically change her diet. She started eating raw foods instead of processed foods. Her eczema went away. Her eczema had been a constant companion all of her childhood and teenage years, but she was able to find a solution in her 20s. So even if a problem has been a constant companion all your life - you know my advice… See it as a puzzle to be solved. So, in conclusion, problems are to be expected in life, but if you see them as puzzles to be solved, rather than something to moan and groan about, you will be a victor rather than a victim, a hero rather than a drama king or drama queen.
6. A thick skin (not caring about what people think of you), especially in these days of social media.

7. Stable accommodation.

8. Someone by your side.

9. Connections.

10. Success in early endeavors helps.

11. A little bit of luck helps too.


When all is said and done, what you achieve in life will be a mixture of luck and design.

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Minoo Jha
 · 5y
People often say that if it's meant for you, it'll be yours. Does that mean that even if you don't work for it, you'll still get it? How will you know when something is not for you when some people say with hard work, nothing is impossible?
So you are applying for a job. You have the experience, the skills, the chops. If the job is meant for you, it will be yours. Sometimes, you may not have the experience, the skills, the chops. Still, if the job is meant for you, it will be yours. I often say this to people looking for a job - “Be patient. The right job will have your name on it.” Lots of things in life will have your name on it. Because luck is as much a factor in life, as design. In fact, I did an analysis of the events in my life to determine what I thought happened because of luck, and what by design. After that, I wrote a post about it on my Minoo Jha Life Strategies blog. Reprinting it below… Was It Luck? Was It By Design? There are many times in my life when I jumped into things and out of things, in a random way. But I landed on my feet. Was it luck? Was it by design? Let’s see… Getting my first copywriting job Luck! I did not know the advertising industry existed, and that I could get a job in advertising copy. If I had known about the industry, maybe I would have made it a goal to get into advertising. I would have gone to J J School of Arts in Bombay to get a Bachelors degree in Mass Communication. I did not do any of that. I was a college drop-out without a plan, happy to compose silly songs, and do some freelance writing for the local newspaper. Here’s how I got into advertising: My sister had a friend Mela, who worked as an Account Executive in a small advertising agency close to our home. When the agency had an opening for a junior copywriter, Mela called my sister and said “we have a job for that sister of yours who writes”. And so, on my 20th birthday, I started my copywriting career at this agency. So the answer is Luck on this one! Moving to America Luck! I had two sisters who were American citizens when I decided I wanted to move to America. It was not long after I got that first advertising job – maybe a year and a half after that I asked them to sponsor me. You could argue I had my designs on moving to America, because after I decided I wanted to emigrate to America, I initiated correspondence with my sisters. I exchanged several letters with them, expressing my desire to move to America, expressing my confidence that I would be able to succeed in America, in spite of not having the high qualifications they had. More than a decade would pass before I would get my visa and pack my bags, but I moved. Was it luck? Was it by design? Luck! I was lucky to have two supportive sisters who were American citizens and who agreed to sponsor me. I am very grateful to them for that to this day. Getting my first Commissions Administration Job Luck! I was flailing around, as a significantly underworked Admin Assistant at Palm Inc. I spent a lot of my time chatting over the cube wall with other Admins, who were as idle as me. P.S. Being idle is fun in the short term, but makes you miserable and leads nowhere in the long term. So luckily for me, my boss Andy summoned me to his office one day and said, “I can tell you are not really not comfortable being an Admin Assistant. Why don’t you apply to one of the many open positions in the company that may be more challenging and rewarding for you.” I was sorry my being ill at ease as an Admin Assistant was something he could perceive. “I knew what this job was, going into it. So don't feel pressured to solve it,” I told him. “Nevertheless, you should take up something more challenging in the company” he advised. It was not his job to tell me what, but it just came out of my mouth. “Like what?” And being aware that the Sales Commission Manager Laura needed an analyst, he said “Go check with Laura….she needs a Commissions Analyst”. He pointed down the hall at the cube where Laura sat. If I did not know what advertising copy was when I started my first career, I certainly did not know what a Commissions Analyst was, and what a Commissions Analyst did. Whatever it was, it was terrifyingly unfamiliar. But I went to Laura……nevertheless, more to appease my boss than anything else. What do you think she said to me? She said “No” But of course! This was after she asked me what my background was and found out that I was an Advertising Copywriter turned Commission Analyst. “Sorry to turn you away, Minoo, but unfortunately, I need someone with Commissions Analyst experience". So back to Andy I went, “Laura says she needs someone with Commissions Analyst experience” I said. What do you think Andy said? “Oh okay”? Nah. Good guess, but wrong answer. Andy was on a mission, “Go back to Laura and tell her you have a lot of free time on your hands, and you can assist her in your free time until she hires a Commission Analyst.” So that’s what I did. And Laura decides to give me work she thinks I can do with my basic knowledge of Excel. Then Laura finds out some things about me. I think I got her at “I am a single mom.” So the next thing, I know, I am “seriously” assisting Laura. And the next thing I know, Laura is telling Andy she needs to convert me from his Admin Assistant to her Commissions Analyst - with a nice bump in pay and everything. And the next thing I know, Laura goes out on maternity leave, and when she decides not to return, I am left in charge of commissions at Palm. It’s been all luck up to this point. But here’s where a little design enters the picture. I knew a laughable amount of Excel at the time Laura went out on maternity. Terrified, I got permission from Laura’s boss Scott (who was my boss after she went out on maternity leave) to buy 5 Excel books and expense them. Why 5 you may ask? Well, I checked the internet for “best books to learn Excel” and these 5 different books came up, so I thought it might be nice to have all of them at hand. And then, every night after I had put my daughter to sleep, I would sit with these Excel books and learn Excel. And now, I will make a surprising admission… I fell hook line and sinker for Excel. Once I found out how powerful a tool it was, I couldn't get enough, and I just kept going and going and going. As a result, I was one of the earliest of Scott’s reports to learn vlookups and pivot tables – as I remember it. So becoming a Commissions Analyst was a beautiful interplay of luck and design. But let’s not forget, it started with luck. The luck of having two caring people decide to change my life. I have never forgotten Laura and Andy's kindness. I have written about how valuable the opportunity (and training) from Laura was for me in my post The Element of Apprenticeship. Nevertheless, it doesn't hurt to say thank you to both her and Andy again. Thank you Laura. Thank you Andy. Working on Xactly Implementations Mostly luck, but some design! In 2010, I walked out of a Commissions Administration job I had held for 5 years. Was that wise of me? I can hear you go “Nooooooooo. Not wise at all. Not in 2010. Unemployment was running extremely high.” It was a crazy, “unplanned” move. Not a shred of design about it. But sometimes crazy, unplanned moves clear your mind and clear the way for new possibilities (like nothing else can). It is when you make lemonade out of lemons. It is when you see the solutions hidden in plain sight. It is when you become resourceful. This is how it went: Less than a month after I had walked out of my Commission Analyst job, my sister and I were having this phone conversation. She told me she had attended an EDD job workshop. She said the gal who gave the workshop, a national job coach, had some excellent tips. One of the things she advised her audience, all of whom were unemployed, was that they should apply for continuing education courses and classes in sought-after skills. The job coach said “Even if you haven’t secured admission in these clases as of yet, you could write on your resume that you had applied for admission. This will help you resume get picked up by recruiters' screens." As my sister was telling me this, a light bulb went over my head. That’s it, I thought! I should apply to Xactly or Callidus (both of which were relatively new in the commission software space) to do their commission admin training. Next thing I knew, I was talking to the Xactly trainer and requesting to be enrolled in the next admin training session. Next thing I knew, she had secured approval to enroll me. Next thing I knew, I was attending Xactly's 3 day commission admin training course. Next thing I knew, I got a call from Solution Partners to join their implementations team on a contracting basis. The Xactly trainer had given them my number. And so that’s how I got to join an Xactly implementations team, and work on portfolio implementations such as Splunk, FusioIo and Lynda, now part of Linkedin. And that’s how I also got to do Xactly unit testing for the company Salesforce. It was a beautiful interplay of luck and design. But it all started with that conversation between me and my sister - which was a sheer stroke of luck. Becoming a Commissions Consultant Design, not luck! You can't be a Commissions Consultant by accident, it has to be “by design”. After I walked out of my permanent Commissions Analyst job, and worked on Xactly implementations as a contractor, I decided I liked contracting. It was cool. There was so much variety, so much exposure, and you were your own boss. To be frank, companies have tried to lure me into accepting a permanent position several times since 2010. Each time it has happened, I have been on the horns of a dilemma - Should I stay or should I go? (I know - I sound like The Clash). But each time, a little voice in my head (a really, really little voice, quite soft) says to me, “Minoo, don't get tempted. Go”. And so far, I have heeded this voice. And so here am I, in 2020, still consulting, after a whole 10 years. It was by design! Going to Toronto, Canada for Varicent training Luck! I have discovered when your fortunes are not tied to a single company; and you are willing to go where the need is high and your skills are in demand, the luck channel really opens up. I mean really, really opens up. Starting mid 2012, I began consulting through several different companies. I discovered some companies would recognize my worth and value more than others, and give me chances and opportunities beyond my wildest dreams. One company went so far as to sponsor me to do Varicent training at IBM in Toronto, Canada, and then put my freshly minted Varicent skills to work by assigning me to several portfolio Varicent assignments – Varian Medical, Paypal and Cyberonics. This break was pure luck. And I am very grateful to this day for such an incredible break. Writing This Blog Luck or design? This one is hard to call. I know that after I came to America and switched careers, there was a long time when I didn’t write. And it looked like I couldn’t write. The words seemed to have gone out of me. And then in December 2010, December 27, 2010, to be precise, I started writing this blog. And now as of date, I have been at it for 9 years. Wow! If you had told me in mid-2010 when I was still in my permanent job, that by the end of 2010, I would have completed Xactly training, joined an Xactly implementations team, learned to meditate, and started a blog, I would have gone “Ha Ha. Bring on the fairy dust”. But all those things happened – between June 5, 2010, when I gave up my permanent job, and Dec 27, 2010, when I started this blog. So many changes in such a short period of time. I think I had to make way for luck, and the muse, and the miracles in my life. And now I realize emptying my time is how I made way. By walking out of my job, my life became filled with nothing but time for the next 6 months. It was the much needed pause that launched a new phase in my life - when my life would be reinvented on every front - professionally and personally. If not for walking out of my job, this blog may not have existed today. If not for walking out of my job, I may not have started meditating. If not for walking out of my job, I may not have got to work on Xactly implementations. If not for walking out of my job, I may not have gotten Varicent training and experience. The events that led me to walk out is what started all those new things. Events I had no control over. So yes, I am inclined to say it was luck after all. I could go on and on. This is a gratitude post. I read that gratitude in itself opens up the luck channel further. I will test this and let you know how it goes. By doing the exercise I did in this post, I realize I have jumped into things and out of things in a haphazard way many times in my life, but 4 out of 5 times, luck has saved the day. And I am very grateful for that.

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