What’s the scariest thing you have thought about doing?
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In 2010, I gave myself a gift.
It was an unusual gift.
It was a gift of inconvenience,
discomfort, insecurity, and uncertainty.
I gave myself the gift of voluntary unemployment.
I’ll say it without packaging it in big
words and fancy terminology.
I quit my job.
In doing so, I had to confront 4 facts:
I had no income.
I had nothing to do.
I had no idea what to do next.
And I did not know what the future
held.
But sometimes, this is exactly the kind
of reality, and the jumping off point your life needs.
You end the status quo.
And when you end the status quo, you
say goodbye to probabilities, and you open the door to possibilities.
Exciting possibilities you cannot even
conceive of.
Over the next few years, I found myself
doing one inconceivable and improbable thing after another.
Within months of quitting my job, on an idea stimulated by a phone conversation, I called
Xactly training to ask if I could do the $3000 3-day Xactly Administrators
Course.
If they said yes, I would become the
first Commissions Analyst to do Xactly training, without being sponsored by an Xactly client.
When you do brave things, doors will open.
The trainer Sonia (bless her heart) got special
permission for me to be allowed into the program.
I signed an NDA, and it
was a done deal.
The next thing I knew, I was introduced
by Sonia to Don Gootee, the manager of an Xactly Implementations Company.
Don was short a resource, and wanted to know if I would be interested in joining his team as a
contractor.
Though the position did not have much to offer in terms of money, I couldn't have been more excited.
It was as if someone had told me I had won the lottery.
The prospect of working as an Implementations Consultant had me over the moon.
Long story short, within just 6 months of quitting my job, I
was working on Xactly implementations - for exciting companies, companies with a
future, companies such as Splunk, and Fusionio (which was subsequently acquired by SanDisk), and
Linda.com (which was subsequently acquired by LinkedIn).
Don also had me do Xactly unit testing
for Marc Benioff’s Salesforce.com.
Then the next thing I knew, another
commissions implementations company was interested in me contracting for them.
So there I was, writing White Papers,
creating Functional Requirements Documents, and doing interim commissions
administration for very young clients like White Hat, hallowed companies like Varian
Medical, and hot-shot companies like Paypal.
Best of all, in order to equip me to deliver
value to their Varicent clients, Maneesh, the founder and GM of the
implementation company, paid for me to go to Toronto, Canada, so I could be Varicent
certified.
My life had taken a marvelous turn.
And it was because I had been daring
enough to give up comfort, convenience, and the status quo.
As of today I am still a free agent, still keeping the channel open on discomfort and inconvenience and breakthroughs.
I do not know who I am going to work
for next, or even when one assignment will end, and a new one will begin.
But this I do know…
I know by being brave, I keep the channel
open to possibilities instead of probabilities.
And so much more can happen when you keep
the channel open to possibilities instead of probabilities, much of it
marvelous and wonderful.
Yes, a brave new world awaits those who
are willing to get comfortable doing something uncomfortable.
A brave new world awaits those who can
give up convenience and security for inconvenience and insecurity.
A brave new world awaits those who can
give up the certainty of the familiar and the known, for the uncertainty and
strangeness of the unknown.
No matter how low the initial pay off,
no matter the sacrifices and adjustments you might need to make, no matter the false
starts, wrong turns, set-backs and missteps, taking the path of possibilities
versus probabilities will eventually lead to a breakthrough.
Make that ‘breakthroughs’.
You will learn things you did not think
you could learn.
You will achieve things you did not
know you could achieve.
You will take on things you did not
know you could take on.
You will enjoy things you did not know
you could enjoy.
You will cherish things you did not
know you could cherish.
Your world will expand, and then expand
again, and then expand again, and never stop expanding.
And you will discover, when all is said
and done, all it took was for you to be unsure of yourself, but be willing to put
your trust in God (and the universe).
So what will it be?
Convenience. Comfort.
Status Quo.
Inconvenience. Discomfort.
Breakthrough.
The choice is yours.
P.S. Since quitting my
job in 2010, I have had more fun, and done more things, than
what people in my field normally get to do.
Moreover, my itinerant status, besides giving me exposure to a variety of compensation plans and commission software tools, has also given me the pleasure of meeting different
people in different companies, and the privilege of working with many brilliant bosses, and on many fantastic teams. Many of the people I have met have become friends for life. I would not
want to turn back the clock on any of this.
I would not change this for the world.
And furthermore, let’s not forget, I started writing the Minoo Jha Life Strategies blog, the same year I quit my job - this blog was born on December 27,
2010, to be precise.
For 15 years prior to that, I had never picked up a
pen. Something had clearly been released
in me the day I walked out of that job.
My dormant spirit, and my dormant imagination, and a newfound courage, were
awakened. In escaping the status quo, an ethos was created for that awakening.
If I hadn’t walked out of that job, would I have started the blog, and would I be writing this,
my 379th post? I seriously doubt it.
You can’t write a blog without actively choosing fear.
When you sit down to write a post, you fear being boring, you fear being repetitive, you fear being out of touch, you fear being redundant, and you fear being irrelevant.
I face that fear every week, as I sit down to write.
Convenience. Comfort.
Status Quo.
Inconvenience. Discomfort. Breakthrough.
The fact I am still writing tells you what my spirit
has chosen.
As always, thanks for
sharing my Journey to Wisdom, Meaning and a Better Life. Like you I am trying to find my way through
this complex maze we call life, and I am honored to have you share my journey,
as I continue to seek the wisdom hidden in plain sight.
Thanks to Ajay for his compliments on my last post, and
thanks to the rest of you for your likes, pins, shares, tweets and votes…..much
appreciated….M ……a Pearl Seeker like you.
Happy Birthday to those with September birthdays. Hope you use your birthday month to birth
something new and wonderful in your life. Don’t be afraid to give up
convenience, comfort and the status quo to birth something new and wonderful in
your life.
Posts to help you on
your journey…
Unleashing Your Creativity
Pursuing A Dream
1 comment:
Perchance to dream...to strive, to seek, to find and not to yield...the future truly belongs to those who dare, as you're story so aptly demonstrates! An inspiring blog, Minoo!You cannot achieve unless you break free of your shackles...
Ajay
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